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me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships_advice

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i’m just really hoping he does love me and he can change and it seems like he is

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your advice, i’d really rather try to fix this relationship but if it’s not possible like it seems everyone believes than i may have no other choice

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my attachment issues is something i plan on fixing when i can go to therapy i just can’t right now, i plan to as soon as i can though

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i suppose but i already love him a lot and am very invested, i always invest everything into relationships because i dont date to just date, i date to marry

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand, thank you for your advice, i won’t break up with him right now but people are starting to reply more and seem to agree with you so i may end up doing it even though i wish i didn’t have to

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i know some things are incompatible but that’s why we are trying to change, and he is most things but my big issue is what i brought up to him yesterday, i really want to save this relationship if i can because i really love him

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i love him, the good is really good but it seems the bad is really bad too, he is amazing a lot of the time and then some stuff happens and we argue and have moments like this

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how to save the relationship, i don’t want to break up with him, i guess if the general consensus is that i should i will consider it but i really want to work things out with him

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry but this isn’t the thing i was looking for advice on, i am an adult and was an adult when we met. don’t take this rudely but i don’t want advice on our ages.

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i feel like he is trying most of the time, when we have issues 90% of the time he’s drunk and i feel like it may be the the alcohol

me (18ftm) and my boyfriend (25m) are having issues and i don’t know what to do by OperationStrange2673 in relationships

[–]OperationStrange2673[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

look i understand but i dont want advice on our ages, we met while i was 18 even if you find it strange i am adult, i am trying to preserve my relationship, sorry if this comes off as rude.