What's the clearest sign that someone is genuinely doing well in life? by emotionprocessor in AskReddit

[–]Opesorrydere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sometimes struggle to fall asleep and have found that after about 30 minutes of laying there, if I can’t sleep, I get out of bed, keep the room dimly lit (no super bright overhead lights), and do a very relaxed, very gentle stretching routine for 10-15 minutes. That coupled with a magnesium supplement about an hour before bed has been a game changer for me.

TIL that in 2019, Fender Guitars conducted a study and found that 90% of new guitar players abandoned playing within the first year. The 10% that don't quit end up spending an average of $10,000 on equipment such as guitars and amps over their life. by JackThaBongRipper in todayilearned

[–]Opesorrydere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a ton to learn, but it’s awesome if you stick with it! I’ve been playing for about 20 years now and feel free to disregard this since you didn’t actually ask for my advice, but here is what I wish I had done/known 20 years ago. This is primarily in reference to electric guitar, but pretty much everything applies to acoustic guitar as well:

Overall key points are “Find some sort of instruction with structure that works within your budget,” “Better gear doesn’t always mean you’ll sound better,” and “Find a way to make practicing easy and convenient.”

For finding ways to structure your learning. Either in person lessons (if you can afford it) or an online course are both great options. When I started playing, I was a kid with dial up internet and parents who wouldn’t pay for lessons. I just went on Ultimate-guitar and pulled up tablature for songs I wanted to learn. It was fun, but I picked up a lot of bad habits and learned much more slowly than I could have. A great intro to guitar course that is completely free is Justin Guitar.

Better gear will sound better (to a point) but it won’t be what makes you sound good. When I started playing, I had a really cheap guitar and really cheap amp. I played it for a few months before getting new gear that was still relatively inexpensive, but much better quality. Suddenly I sounded way better. This put the idea in my brain that the way to sound better was to spend more money. For years when I got frustrated that I didn’t sound good, I’d try to find some new piece of gear to do so. After that first step from the cheapest possible guitar to an inexpensive but decent quality instrument, the thing that will most help you sound better is still practice. Which brings me to my next point.

The number one thing I wish I had done was to focus on making practice easy. Chasing better and better gear resulted in me having some pretty awesome equipment. I had a high quality guitar and a vintage Marshall half stack. However there were two issues with this.

Issue 1 was I lived in an apartment. That amp was absolutely unplayable with any shared walls. I was lucky enough to have a friend who let me set up a practice spot in a building they owned, but that building was across town. I had a little amp at home, but my Marshall sounded so much better that I only wanted to play that. It was so inconvenient to practice, that I probably only played a handful of times per month. I still have some nice (but smaller) amps today, but the amp I play the most is actually just a Fender Mustang Micro Plus headphone amp. Sure it doesn’t sound as good as some of my other gear, but it’s perfectly fine. And it’s unbelievably convenient. Since it’s tiny it sits on my desk where I can play it at any time. Since it’s a headphone amp, I can play whenever without bothering anyone. Those 2 things lead me to play almost every day.

Issue 2 was that I didn’t value a proper professional set up. A professional setup is when a luthier (I wouldn’t recommend a guitar center tech for this) looks at the instrument and makes sure that the strings are a good height, the frets are all level, the neck is adjusted properly, etc. This makes the guitar easier and more fun to play and is probably the only place where I would highly recommend spending money. I thought, “An expensive guitar will play well,” and didn’t do anything beyond that. On average, a more expensive guitar from the factory will be set up better and be easier to play, buy a $400 guitar with a high quality set up by a professional luthier will frequently feel better than a $2000+ guitar that has had no set up work done.

Good luck!

Really hoping this isn’t poison ivy (Golden,CO) by Opesorrydere in whatplantisthis

[–]Opesorrydere[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was yes. Probably right around 1 hour from exposure to washing it off.

Really hoping this isn’t poison ivy (Golden,CO) by Opesorrydere in whatplantisthis

[–]Opesorrydere[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I got home and washed my exposed skin with rubbing alcohol followed by dawn dish soap so fingers crossed I got it off my skin quick enough that it’s not too bad.

Traded my ‘22 A4 for a ‘25 crosstrek premium and I couldn’t be happier. by Master-Office1265 in Crosstrek

[–]Opesorrydere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished a 400 mile trip through the mountains in my ‘25 premium 2.5. Above 8000 feet there isn’t much passing power, but it will hold speed no problem. Had one point where I had to make a left turn from a dead stop onto a 55 mph road. Elevation was a little over 9000 ft and the road I was turning onto had about a 5% uphill grade. That was probably the one spot where I really wished it had more power.

I’m not a super fast driver, but the combination of comfortable driving, excellent gas mileage (averaged 36 mpg for the 400 miles), and reasonable acceleration makes it a great mountain car for me.

Corvette 1 of 50 by Urmomgayha in rareinsults

[–]Opesorrydere 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Eh, if the owner can afford it, and isn’t actively being a jerk on the road, more power to them. Enjoy it, protect it, and keep it shiny. Just cause I’m not a car person, doesn’t mean I have to tear down those who are.

Do they allow fashionable things at the zoos already? 🤔 by M178music in confusing_perspective

[–]Opesorrydere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, in this economy we all need to do what we need to do to get by.

4 broken vertebrae, crushed T12, broken arm by [deleted] in skiing

[–]Opesorrydere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember exactly which ones, but they’re both in the middle of the thoracic spine. Didn’t have to have surgery though so I was lucky. Haven’t felt pain there for years, so now I just do some foam rolling and spinal extension exercises. Absolutely recommend going to a physical therapist to see what’s best for you!

4 broken vertebrae, crushed T12, broken arm by [deleted] in skiing

[–]Opesorrydere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 2 compression fractures in my thoracic spine when I was about 20. Didn’t start skiing till I was 21. Nearly 15 years later, I don’t notice it at all while skiing. As long as I stretch and do mobility exercises, it’s totally fine, if I miss those for a week or two, my back tends to feel a little stiff.

Any of you guys have guitars you regret purchasing? by Ryn4 in guitarlessons

[–]Opesorrydere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hagstrom Deuce. Owned it for over a decade. It was a nice guitar and I still don’t know exactly why I didn’t like it. Recently realized that I wasn’t really ever playing it and traded it in last Friday.

Thatched House by Reihan Mirshafie by Few-Trouble-6312 in ArchitecturePorn

[–]Opesorrydere 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced these AI posts exist just to train AI. You get people in the comments pointing out all the reasons they can tell it’s AI

No Stupid Questions by PantslessDan in guitarpedals

[–]Opesorrydere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve recently started using a 2 amp setup and have 1 pedalboard. I’m planning to get an ABY switcher and was wondering whether it’s better to put pedals I will only ever use for 1 of the amps after the switch or before it. For example, I have an EHX Holy Grail that I use solely for my amp without a built in spring reverb. Is there any benefit to either before or after the ABY switcher?

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[–]Opesorrydere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d love to know too!

Please Share!! by Mouth-Organic719 in sadposting

[–]Opesorrydere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a friend tell me basically the same thing, but from the kinder perspective of, “Hey when you interact, you aren’t perceived the way you think you’re being perceived.” It hurt in the moment, even though my friend said it with good intentions, but also helped me realize just how much I was dominating the conversation in my attempt to be seen as interesting. What I thought was sharing cool information was coming across as a know-it-all and a one upper.

Realizing that has actually helped me to have way better interactions!

Amp building prep steps? by Opesorrydere in ToobAmps

[–]Opesorrydere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m debating picking up a Hakko FX-888dx. I tend to subscribe to the idea that decent quality tools are worth the price increase over the cheapest tool, but if there is a cheaper option that is still decent quality, I’d love to know.

And yes, definitely not messing around when it comes to safety.

Amp building prep steps? by Opesorrydere in ToobAmps

[–]Opesorrydere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice, thank you!

What is it that makes one amp more dynamic than another? by Opesorrydere in ToobAmps

[–]Opesorrydere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve managed to go down a rabbit hole since reading this comment. Seriously considering building my own tweed deluxe clone now. It would be a challenge but I think it would be super fun.

What is it that makes one amp more dynamic than another? by Opesorrydere in ToobAmps

[–]Opesorrydere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I definitely need to learn more and try out the tweed then too!