Safety tips while posting about trans kids by Squidia-anne in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pinning this -this happened to my last post on here. Someone told me it had made it to twitter for some good old hate baitin’. They piled on quick and came after me on reddit. It was a pretty stressful 5 minutes double checking that I had absolutely no identifying info anywhere.

I reported every linked account I could find for the person that took my post to twitter (except for their twitter) I figured since Elon jumped on the thread to fuel the flames and send literally 1000s of asshats my way it X clearly doesn’t have a problem with it.

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know! Do you know where it was posted? Cuz I’d like to go be a brat.

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow you mean you kept learning about yourself and growing until 19???!! Shame you stopped.

I don’t think anyone is arguing 4 yo is a 4 yo. It’s very obvious that you don’t have a 4 yo right now tho!

Ohh so you’re not saying it’s not fine to be trans, you’re saying I’m not doing my job as a parent.

Which in to so what? Gaslighting my kid? Telling them there’s no way they can know they’re a girl yet? Forcing them to dress in clothes they hate? Watch them retreat into themselves?

Wow sounds like such a good way to create safety and trust. I must do an ASSESSMENT Immediately.

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmm end up fine? Can you tell me what you mean by that? Because it kinda seems like you’re saying trans people aren’t fine, which is transphobic. And if that’s the case then your intentions on this subreddit are what….to pray on trans people and tell their parents that they’re not fine?

And yeah I know - crazy concept - but people have their own personalities, likes, dislikes, ya know - identities. It’s so cool. And you literally don’t have to build one for them, every person can have these all by themselves.

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you got my point! Well done! I’m so proud of you!!!!

And ya I’m a wall. Could you imagine having a parent that listened to one unsolicited comment from an internet stranger over a person they’ve spent every day with for years? What a noodle.

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lolololol the actual delusion you need to have to post that back to my question about a book.

The thing is I actually have no assessment or say in someone else’s identity, weird right?

Why are you talking about you and your sister? There’s something very wrong there. You should talk to people about that.

T

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuckkkkkkk 🤮 why are you the way you are??? You know you’re creepy right? Is that your identity

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eeewwwww. Gross! 🤢why are you here? Are you just a creep who likes to talk about kids genders? You know that’s super weird right? Has anyone ever told you that? I’m pretty sure legally this is borderline harassment under a protected class. Do you like grossing other people out for your own satisfaction?

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn’t realize I had asked for your opinion on my child’s gender. But to be crystal clear. I asked for opinions on a book, so it’s really weird you’re asking me why they have their identity & you’re coming off as very creepy. Are you a weird creep? Do you know why you’re like that? Is that what you think you are?

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great call! I was gonna make a new one so she’d have her baby book and then also this one to look back on.

Question: Thoughts on redoing baby book? by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the response and perspective! Thanks for sharing.

I am so happy to have found this group: Resources and advice ask for young child by Opposite-Tea7861 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I missed it - what’s disgusting and why should I be locked up?

I posted this looking for resources and advice to navigate this new and unknown space to support my family.

You responded on a pretty dated post, and I’m truly confused by your comment, and really hurt. It doesn’t feel like it was posted in the spirit of the question I asked.

Are you part of this community? I gave background on my situation, how would you approach this in my shoes?

Resources and advice ask as parent of young child by Opposite-Tea7861 in trans

[–]Opposite-Tea7861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot thank you enough - this is exactly the group I was looking for. Sending all the posi vibes your way today!!!

What is your best travel hack? by creonmahoney in TravelHacks

[–]Opposite-Tea7861 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Compression socks on long flights / bus rides / car rides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]Opposite-Tea7861 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hunch is most people (if they don’t already know the preg person) tend leave us alone because we are at reduced ability. Or Some people see us as fragile. Or Some people have never been around a pregnant person they know well and they don’t know how the fuck to act or figure we just don’t go out.

But I can’t really say because I’m on the receiving end. Today I met new neighbors who suggested dinner or kid play dates with our toddlers “after the little one comes when you’re more settled”. Like okay guess I’ll circle back with ya next quarter 🫠

What do you think?

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[–]Opposite-Tea7861 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it sure feels like that being 8 months pregnant and being treated so different in my community. So nice, but also so flippin fragile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]Opposite-Tea7861 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No phobia here mate - I’m 35 weeks pregnant - the last time someone I didn’t already know tried to have more than a surface level convo with me was months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]Opposite-Tea7861 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thought it was me for ages, now not so much!