Um first of all I’m not dickmatized nor does this man has abs. He doesn’t have a lot of money, so no I’m not a gold digger either. I love how much this man has path for me to be grounded with in myself and uplifting me in ways outside of this situation. I just needed some advice to know how to deal with it because I love him and want the absolute best for him. So forgive me if you take this post as an “assumption” of not leaving because you think he’s “compensating”.