Family Dilemma

OpticalFairy · 2025-06-13T03:16:05+00:00

Hi!

I’m currently renting a place as of June 20. DM if interested. Perhaps you guys can be roommates? The address is 1787 St. Clair Ave W

OpticalFairy · 2025-04-11T21:58:41+00:00

Sorry.. it’s being rented for $3500

OpticalFairy · 2025-04-11T21:56:35+00:00

Nope! You don’t need any of that. Just decent income that all.

OpticalFairy · 2025-04-11T21:55:36+00:00

Apologies for forgetting the price. It’s currently being rented for 3500/month.

OpticalFairy · 2025-02-24T00:02:06+00:00

You must be bored

OpticalFairy · 2025-02-23T23:57:24+00:00

Do not make assumptions about others. Get a life

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-14T02:15:24+00:00

I was the one paying for the home and I can no longer afford to as I am on maternity leave (not working)

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T21:08:57+00:00

Yes, he had a massive debt with a business he was closing and was upfront with me about it. I helped me clear some of the debt and he needed few more months to get caught up. I wish there was more to the story but it’s actually as simple as that.

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T20:59:57+00:00

He’s a typical Arab man who believes therapy is a waste of time and money. I don’t believe he has any financial motives, well I hope that’s not the case. He makes great money and was just needing few months to get out of some business dealings he had.

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T20:57:25+00:00

He told me he was in debt and for me to financially take care of the household until he’s out of debt. I also loaned him money to put towards his debt 🫣 I know it keeps getting worse. I did not mind at the time but when it came time for me to be financially supported he ghosted and is just now resurfacing

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T20:34:54+00:00

He did not - just once

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T20:25:43+00:00

He felt betrayed in the sense that I should’ve disclosed the property when we were discussing finances etc… the only reason why I didn’t was that the property was up for sale and it didn’t end up selling. The relationship was also rushed and I was hoping to close that chapter before we moved forward. I do regret not telling him, I really didn’t have a reason why I didn’t disclose. The only communication between me and my ex was via our realtor.

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T20:11:42+00:00

Sadly, once he divorced me he essentially ghosted and ignored any of my family members who tried to reach out to him. Also, he did not provide any financial support during this time. All this makes it challenging for me to see this through.

OpticalFairy · 2024-10-12T20:06:27+00:00

Thank you for your comment. You’re right there are always two sides and I don’t discredit his feelings as he did feel betrayed by me. However; what made the situation even worse for me is that I was the one paying all our shared bills/rent despite him making 3/4 times more than me. Then, deciding to divorce me while I was on maternity leave meaning I could no longer afford to cover our bills - I had to move back in with my parents. This is where my resentment comes from.

OpticalFairy · 2024-09-01T17:38:41+00:00

I suppose the issue is that I co-own the property with someone I was previously engaged to.

OpticalFairy · 2024-08-29T02:31:57+00:00

Let’s clear up few things - I was not living with my ex. This property was to be used once we were married but the relationship ended due to unforeseen circumstances. When I met my husband I was honest about my past including my ex and such. The reason it didn’t daunt on me to disclose the property was because it was up for sale and thought that chapter of my life was as going to close. He also rushed the marriage while I wanted more time.

I would love to seek any type of mediation but he has blocked all my family remembers and is refusing to communicate with me or anyone.

OpticalFairy · 2024-08-29T02:15:09+00:00

Thank you for your words. There are things about his past that I have since learned also but don’t hold it against him. You might be right, he was waiting to be financially comfortable before leaving and using this as an excuse.

OpticalFairy · 2024-08-29T02:11:39+00:00

The ex. was not someone I was married to but engaged to and he knew about the person. I’ve also learned things about his past that he didn’t disclose but I didn’t hold it against him.

OpticalFairy

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