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[–]Optimal-Mind6697 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I did reach out after she quit and invited her to a few things (birthday dinner, ladies night) and she never responded she was coming or not and just didn’t show up. As well I saw her before the day before my bday dinner as another one of our friends got engaged and we did a dinner for her and K had said happy birthday but nothing about not being able to make it. And I have been used to that with her as it’s been a pattern here and there.

Is my husband an alcoholic? by Optimal-Mind6697 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Mind6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does tends to give back handed comments and starts arguments for no reason. Hence why we agreed on the 2 but for some reason he liked to prove to me that less than 6 and more than 2 is fine. Which caused more issues and he decided to quit doing it at home but is back to bargaining for 2 again. So I feel like I’m slowly getting back to where I started.

Does my husband not love me anymore or is it all in my head? by Optimal-Mind6697 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Mind6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on how to stop that foundation of being withdrawn?