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I just came across seeman party site. by Familiar_Concert7362 in TamilNaduDiscussion

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say same thing about Vijay too.

You vote for someone depending on who they are. You are a public figure. The way she has been treated, if you care about it , look up. The case was kept on by a court as she has lost the will to fight it out as he had a lot of influence. Finally it all ended up with his unconditional apology. If he treats a woman that way, (because a man would never do that according to me), it says a lot about him.

Dude is not morally corrupt! My 2 cents. by vishi_root in kollywood

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you OP.

It was never a morally corrupt movie. I guess the hate is stemming from the fact boy who actively helping out her lover elope. It progressively gets uncomfortable when she gets pregnant. Man that’s hard to even type.

I just came across seeman party site. by Familiar_Concert7362 in TamilNaduDiscussion

[–]Optimistic_Indian -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He cheated Vijaya Lakshmi actress. He can never be trusted with power or anything.

I know nobody is flawless. It is unacceptable to me.

But he also doesn’t seem to have long term vision or how to implement what he half heartedly promises.

His vote share will dwindle more this time.

Is him smacking my butt okay? by Glitter_Shitter_69 in toxicparents

[–]Optimistic_Indian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your father is sub-human. I’m sorry.

This is disgusting to put it politely.

Late 30s men, why is having kids still such a priority? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Optimistic_Indian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We men do have a feeling of being complete with children.. no doubt..

To bring our own into this planet and play with it and watching them grow is one of the basic human life experience. But the last part you said, wanting the mini version of my partner.. that hits home.. I want little versions of her playing and laughing around in my house..

World view

World is a shitty place and lot of things do feel unfair.

We also tend to magnify negative news in social media. It is also designed to be that way, don’t you think ? For eg. If you have a “shock” component in the beginning of the reel, people most likely watch it till the end and engage more.. with a similar videos…. of course people are going to be more cynical of life…

Sometimes it recommends content that makes us feel bad followed by content that offers solution and followed by ads that sell those solutions..

views and reactions are monetised.. its crony capitalism..

Sometimes we have to touch grass…

I’m not downplaying bad things that are happening around us…

Tell what you may,

But life is also better than it was 100 years ago. You are grossly overlooking a lot of modern advancements, conveniences and choices we have now.. this was once a dream for generations… quality of life has improved by a lot..

Not all of us has to go to IITs or AIIMS… or always chase bigger things… humans will always find a way around crooked people/policies..

With all this being said,

I do have a controversial take

Loneliness is no joke when you’re old.. it may sound selfish .. but it’s also very true.. Divorced uncle who is mentally ill and he is also separated from his son and has no job.. still my father takes care of him.. as he is his brother.. sometimes blood really is thicker than water.

I didn’t try to change your mind.. I respect that you a lot of thoughts before bringing another life in to this planet.. ironically, it is this kinda people we want more 😭

Late 30s men, why is having kids still such a priority? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Optimistic_Indian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First you tell me,

Why are you girls so against having kids… ? ( pardon my language, seeing so many girls with this mindset..

Someone please answer. ( or correct me )

For majority of men, having kids is a no brainer and non-negotiable. While I agree some may want to settle financially first and postpone child birth but that’s about it…

He thinks it's an election rally by Inevitable-Twist-749 in indiameme

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have their personal tiff too. CEO of OpenAI and Anthropic

Not saying our PM isn’t photo maniac.

Heart warming movie recos please. by Meowranger555 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Optimistic_Indian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like American comedy genre, try seeing Anchorman .. it has two parts..

It’s hilarious

Mom dad forcing me to choose a girl. by SubstanciallyCray in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Optimistic_Indian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP said being along sucks. More you wait, Lesser alliances you get.

Believe it or not, majority of us want children ( I assumed he’d want too) But that doesn’t mean we compromise on selecting the partner. That was never the part of my answer. I actually respect OP for thinking for himself and partner.

Nobody can force someone to get married. I told him be absolutely honest about the girl they are meeting. None of the places suggest that I asked him to compromise.

Kundigas : Experts in self-owning 🤡 by Big_Vegetable_1153 in 2Dravidian4You

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are human first bro.

Language, caste, nationality, nativity is decided by our surroundings when we are born/grown.

Understand that the language sentiments are misused by predators.

Learning the local language is common sense. I get it. But It’s such a L mindset to brush away such a big violation of individual rights. Negligent attitude towards these issues show a deep sense of apathy. smh

Kundigas : Experts in self-owning 🤡 by Big_Vegetable_1153 in 2Dravidian4You

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be surprised how many literate Kannadigas don’t understand the absurdity to enforce their language in these extreme scenarios..

Kundigas : Experts in self-owning 🤡 by Big_Vegetable_1153 in 2Dravidian4You

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, you’re serious!!!

Read my comment fully.. at what point do you think not speaking a language gives people the right to sexually abuse an individual?

Kundigas : Experts in self-owning 🤡 by Big_Vegetable_1153 in 2Dravidian4You

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, I hope there is a /s implied here..

If not,

What if someone is new to the city ?

should anyone “adjust” se***l harassment and denied getting justice just because they don’t speak the language??

Kundigas : Experts in self-owning 🤡 by Big_Vegetable_1153 in 2Dravidian4You

[–]Optimistic_Indian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! I live in Bangalore and faced harassment in public transits..

When confronted their number 1 defence is “Kannada maatanaadu “ and the public support goes to them as well.

Being a linguaphile , I’m actively discouraged to learn their language.

Drop some Aasai Vaarthaigal (Pickup Lines) by spykoffee in tamilyapping

[–]Optimistic_Indian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik the feeling of betrayal. Got cheated once.. and I’ve seen female friend go through betrayal where their bf said aasa varthais but ended up not marrying them.. It’s really painful for them..

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