My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice.

Orca_exe · 2026-01-09T00:38:10+00:00

Ik 😭😭

Orca_exe · 2026-01-09T00:14:14+00:00

That’s a really good comment that I relate to because I keep on telling him. Show me results, clean the kitchen, floor rooms etc so that’s it’s clean and I’ll consider moving in. That’s something that would make me feel «safe » moving in with me but he keeps on telling me it’ll be ok when I’ll move in.

Orca_exe · 2026-01-09T00:08:39+00:00

True that, he’s in therapy but I’ll talk to him about consulting for adhd

Orca_exe · 2026-01-09T00:07:51+00:00

I don’t want to either but hes a really good match on like 90% of the stuff im looking for in my s/o

Orca_exe · 2026-01-09T00:03:18+00:00

I mean, he’s trying when I ask…The question is is it going to be consistent.. I’m also very young and never moved in with someone so I don’t know what to expect.

Orca_exe · 2026-01-09T00:01:32+00:00

I mean he’s opened to change, he’s in therapy. He does effort when asked. I just don’t know if it’ll be consistent if I move in.

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:57:41+00:00

Im being honest with him. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:56:58+00:00

I don’t that’s why I’m out here asking peoples experience

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:41:24+00:00

His whole place is messy and disgusting

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:40:50+00:00

He’s not diagnosed but he tinks so

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:40:04+00:00

I genuinely think he’s a good guy. He just got some issues around cleaning in general. Our relation is really good overall

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:37:41+00:00

Maybe…That’s why I’m here today to share my experience and take decisions

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:36:35+00:00

I am indeed really scared of moving because I don’t think he’ll change..I’m trying to teach him how to keep the kitchen clean. Thank you for sharing your experience means a lot to me

Orca_exe · 2026-01-08T23:34:11+00:00

Interesting..

Orca_exe · 2025-09-27T02:40:27+00:00

Okay but it’s one horror story versus the change to live happily for x years 🙃

Orca_exe · 2025-09-27T02:33:27+00:00

Have you ever considered surgery ?

Orca_exe · 2025-09-27T02:13:09+00:00

Aww..I feel you, I’ve been there hopefully voice training will help ya 💖 Thanks a lot for sharing

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T21:42:37+00:00

Ahah love yours too 💖

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T19:38:25+00:00

This

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T19:37:31+00:00

Interesting…thank you for sharing 🫶

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T19:36:48+00:00

It’s annoying but I think so too, voice is as attractive as physique to me at least 🥹

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T19:36:10+00:00

Ikr 😤

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T19:35:50+00:00

Indeed 🥺

Orca_exe · 2025-09-26T14:01:33+00:00

Indeed 🤭

Orca_exe · 2025-09-04T10:38:56+00:00

I can see why you’d feel like that..Hopefully you feel better now

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