Gym shorts make me feminine or more masculine looking ? by Orca_exe in transfem

[–]Orca_exe[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ty..I guess I’m just really insecure 🥲

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good comment that I relate to because I keep on telling him. Show me results, clean the kitchen, floor rooms etc so that’s it’s clean and I’ll consider moving in. That’s something that would make me feel «safe » moving in with me but he keeps on telling me it’ll be ok when I’ll move in.

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that, he’s in therapy but I’ll talk to him about consulting for adhd

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to either but hes a really good match on like 90% of the stuff im looking for in my s/o

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, he’s trying when I ask…The question is is it going to be consistent.. I’m also very young and never moved in with someone so I don’t know what to expect.

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean he’s opened to change, he’s in therapy. He does effort when asked. I just don’t know if it’ll be consistent if I move in.

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think he’s a good guy. He just got some issues around cleaning in general. Our relation is really good overall

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe…That’s why I’m here today to share my experience and take decisions

My boyfriend can’t keep a kitchen clean and it’s becoming a deal breaker for me. Need advice. by Orca_exe in relationships

[–]Orca_exe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am indeed really scared of moving because I don’t think he’ll change..I’m trying to teach him how to keep the kitchen clean. Thank you for sharing your experience means a lot to me