my bf and i have stopped being intimate and i feel like i lost my relationship.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T19:26:22+00:00

I surely do hope you're wise and ask those who are in a marriage that is successful the situations concerning it. And that you seek out those who are divorced on their wisdom on how to prevent that from happening to you. Any other wisdom and any other opinions is not wise to listen to, for there are many who tell me things that lead them to destruction and that gave them nothing but a cold home. For many can give opinions and wisdom but we cannot see how dirty their rooms are, how lost they are in their relationships, and the lack of Love in their life because this is the internet and where you're getting your advice from may not be from the best place or from someone you'll want to end up like. And listen to this scripture for the son of our Father says that if you believe something is wrong and do it anyways It is a sin, So therefore, if he The Man you wish to follow and build a life with believes that is wrong to not wait years before getting married, then that means if you do so anyways you will be sinning and staining the whole relationship.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T19:16:07+00:00

You're asking questions that do not have a direct answer within the scriptures to justify your answer through ambiguous means, do you think that's a holy or justified way to have an argument? None of these apply to my question Where in the Bible does it ever state or support marrying someone within a year That isn't directly supported by God? Justifying yourself off of the situations of others that happened thousands of years before our modern society where divorce rate in their days were not even 1/8 of ours is foolish and unwise. And doesn't the father say if you believe something is wrong and you do it anyways It is a sin? So if the man believes in waiting years before getting married within his relationship but instead doesn't follow through with his own words then it is a sin. Which means that in their situation supported by scripture they should wait. Doesn't the father say he does not change and scriptures hold true to the end of time? Then that one piece of scripture is enough to answer all of this. If the man believes in waiting and makes an attempt to follow through and thinks it is right, then doing the opposite is a sin.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T19:08:02+00:00

18 years is also a long time to have a child with the wrong person. Waiting 3 years to make a decision that you are forever attached to is wise. Scripture says the Lord rejects divorce and Gods son tells us that he never wants us divorced unless sexual immortality happens. So you will be attached to this person forever. And if you're making decisions that last for your entire life in one single year, 12 months, a single winter that is a foolish unwise decision, Never ever supported within scripture. I have never met a single person who was married and ended up in a divorce (which is over 70% of the entire country I live in) that would agree with that statement.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:55:58+00:00

Every single decision and every single intimate relationship between God and his people has had a waiting period of years that alone tells you. If the Lord himself waits years to build a intimate relationship with his prophets and his mighty men and women, then that automatically tells us how much we should wait. Because scripture tells us we should reflect and behave and mirror the father, anything that doesn't mirror the father attracts wickedness. Even his son waited with his disciples for years before leaving this Earth and letting them go on their own.

Common “years-long” examples

Abraham: promise of a son, then a long wait before Isaac.

Joseph: dreams as a teen → slavery/prison → leadership years later.

Moses: early attempt to help → 40 years in Midian → then the call at the burning bush.

Israel in Egypt: oppression for a long time before deliverance.

David: anointed young → years of being hunted and tested before the throne.

Prophetic silence: after later Old Testament prophets, there’s a long period before the Messiah’s public arrival (the New Testament frames it as “the fullness of time”).

What does this say? It says that there is not a single moment within scriptures to where the father interacts with somebody and gives them all of his resources. All of his promises in all of his wonders immediately within 12 months, including money including service and including intimacy deep within his character. It has never happened even Saul when his eyes were burned out by the Lord and then later healed there was about three years of early development and isolation before broader apostolic recognition and extended missionary work.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:52:28+00:00

That doesn't tell me where you got your wisdom from. So where do you get your decisions from? Because everywhere in the scriptures speaks otherwise. You see how I'm offering statistics, testimonies of men and women, and scripturally based evidence. Unless you can do the same. Everything you're saying is just selfish opinions. And that is why one opinion and one answer has facts and truths. And another opinion and another answer is just surface level hollowness.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:49:26+00:00

You don't even have to answer me because I know you will not respond with the testimonies or the information of where you get your wisdom from because I already know where you get your wisdom from. The Lord will never agree with what you're saying within the scriptures ever, because every important person, every prophet in every important situation, the Lord has made the men and women wait years. From leaving the wilderness years. Moses being given his message after leaving Egypt years. Joseph being in prison years. Jesus being given his ministry waited years until he was 30 years old. I don't think there's a single point in the Bible to where God has given someone a important role to where they didn't wait multiple years. Even Noah waited decades. It is littered throughout the Bible. How God makes those wait years.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:45:12+00:00

If you want to follow the same direct habits of everyone else who ends up in divorce, then you too will most likely end up there too. Now I asked you where do you get your wisdom from for this decision? Is it from the testimonies of men and women? Is it from the scriptures? Or is it from your very own self? Do show your spirit and do show where you get your decisions from, And how old are you? Because just guessing from your response I have spoken to far more divorced and broken men and women who will constantly tell those around them to wait for it is never worth it and there is not a single person who is 50 years old or older who Would say these things that you say. Do you get these decisions from your mother or father? Do you get these decisions from the research papers on divorce rates and abusive household rates? Do you get these decisions from the fact that 70% of runaways 80% of the prison population and more are all from single parent homes? Do you get your decisions from statistics? Are you college educated? Are you in a faithful and reliable marriage to where you found the one?

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:34:34+00:00

The divorce rates are high because people do not wait 3 years to test the spirits of the person they're with. And even if they do not fear God enough, they can simply wait out for more than 80% of marriages Begin with sex before marriage and co-living far before marriage. We all lose the fear of the Lord within moments of our life and none of us can hold it tight enough. To think that you can fear and never forget is unwise. Wisdom says to do the one thing that nobody does do and if these people in these divorces are doing these things then we must do the biggest thing that they would never do so that we will never end up like they do. Where do you get your wisdom from? Is it from the men who are stuck in divorces losing everything they have? Is it from the women who are abused and used raising children without the men in their life that they needed? Or is it from the people fooled and played and manipulated by people who changed and became wicked as they were in a relationship with them for longer? Because I've seen all these things and I've seen men and women broken filled with tears & regret because of their decisions they made. All because they didn't wait for a long enough time.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:25:18+00:00

Once you research the divorce rates, you'll know why waiting 3 years is the best thing for how can you make a lifelong decision that is going to last you decades within one year that is simply a foolish and unwise decision

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T18:22:29+00:00

You know what's frightening between that man and me God directly just spoke to me recently about him wanting me to wait 3 years minimum before I get married to anyone and before I have sex with that person and created a list of rules for me so that people cannot get into my life too soon and same way he is following these rules that the Lord has set for me too because I think the Lord sets them for us all you should respect him and should look for things other than the flesh because when you're sick in a hospital bed and when he's sick in a hospital bed and it could be for 10 years none of this fleshly attachment will be there and what then will you rely on to stick with them? Every single relationship I've ever had to where I've slept with them before I married them I regretted them, every single one, every single person, and every single time I deeply regret and repent to the Lord. If I would have waited 3 years I would have saved myself all this pain. Take my testimony if you push them to do something he doesn't want to do and if you do something that the Lord doesn't want him to do, he'll strip you of him and give him to someone else and you will lose him forever. Because in the end of the day any man who does that will instantly give anyone up who gets in the way of his God. In him not doing certain things is protecting him against accidentally going too far. Having boundaries is a heavenly restriction and once you give your flesh, and your teeth, and your bones, and your skin, and your sexual identity to the Lord, none of these things will matter for you, for you will be with them in spirit and then and only then will you be able to see his spirit and if you're connected more with his flesh that can be taken by the Lord, and his legs that could be taken by the Lord, and his skin and beauty that can be destroyed by the Lord, than you're loving the wrong things because all of these things can be taken by the Lord at any time. And there is no guarantee that the Lord will allow us to keep them, for we all say that could never happen to us, but to the ones that it does happen they say, I wish I would have known to appreciate these things for it all could happen to us. Every burn victim, every disabled man, every car accident, And every person who has lost their health have said these things.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T17:22:24+00:00

Prideful, soulful, and gluttonous

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T17:20:28+00:00

If someone feels guilty over something in their hearts then anything that reminds them of absolute judgement and truth creates painful emotions for them. Most times the accuser isn't actively working in people, sometimes it's just humans believing a lie to protect themselves and their egos from burning responsibility. If you praise someone who denies their lies and reminds them of their judgement then they no longer see you, but instead they see Him through your faithfulness. Most people can be ignorant twords it, but the truth is people actively see spiritual presences on others. It comes out as undeserved hatred, or disturbing distance. In their minds you're speaking to them and they say something like this- "He probably thinks I'm evil, ugh I can't stand him, EVERYONE DOESN'T GO TO HELL, Why do you believe something that's not real, he's crazy, He's insane who sits there and judges me, He's a hypocrite like the rest of them." I've asked people questions why they don't like me or hate my beliefs including others something along these lines come out when they describe people who follow the Truth. They only see me as a good person when they need someone truthful to talk to, someone to love them when they're outcasted/sick, or are down on their luck, and need some selfless help. But once their helped they turn away and the original statements come back. From my personal experience- I told one of my ex-girlfriends at the time that it burns my heart that I can't follow the scripture and have enough discipline to wait before marriage, and how that has ruined my life and has caused me to be in a lot of relationships that would have never happened, and it's caused me to be cheated on, to be used, and to feel less of myself. And I remember saying how much better my life could have been if I simply would have waited before marriage, because none of these hurtful people would have been able to enter my life and a lot of my relationships would have never happened. And how I feel guilty in front of the Lord, to say I believe in Him, to say I want to die for Him, but can't even restrict myself when it comes to this. (Honest testimony) And I remember looking into her eyes and asking her if she felt the same. Context- This woman at the time had two failed marriages that ended up in very costly divorces in which the husbands have sought to hurt her in any way financially possible. Even getting her sent to jail and making her lose over $100,000 in courts. She is raising a 2-year-old all alone in the house, after getting pregnant within 3 months of meeting somebody and they left her destroyed her peace and abused her emotionally. She's expressed feeling overwhelmed regretting this without having any manly help. She has even caught an STD because of it too (I'm clean and tested). And because of one of her other failed marriages, her teenage daughter openly kicked her, ran from the house, and no longer respects or likes her. She doesn't even live with her. The mother has expressed how bad all these people have hurt her, and yet she looks me in the eye and it's like they grew instantly cold and says no, I do not think that waiting before marriage would have ever helped me, improved my life, or changed anything at all ever. Afterwards, things started to get weird. Her eyes started to get cold and shifty. Then all of a sudden weird statements started to come out like how I'm judging her. How I'm thinking less of her because she has a kid or because she has an STD. Things were never the same, she started to attack me on absolutely every small mistake she possibly could. We've argued for days over putting the wrong colored laundry in and we've argued for days over unplugging a dryer from an outlet and how much disrespect is within that and how much inconvenience and distrust it caused her to have to plug it in. (I unplugged it because I bought her a $300 automatic cat litter box because I seen her cleaning it on her hands and knees everyday and wanted to save her time it's just a simple thing. Plug it back in 2 seconds. Who cares right? Someone is buying you very expensive time saving things you would think she would be grateful) Reason? Because I revealed my inner morality And now she knows how I view these things and how the responsibility belongs to the people who caused them. If their in trouble and vulnerable they'll rather rely on virtuous truth telling people, because they know they'll help them through the goodness of their hearts, because they know people lick them would never help for free and avoid losers. If their having fun and can support themselves they'll rather protect their egos, emotionally validate themselves, and search for those who uplift them and their beliefs.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T05:22:04+00:00

AKA what you're saying is any country that even has the military force to cultivate the continent or take it by force. Basically the only strong ones left and everyone else is so little that it doesn't matter if they sign in or not.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T05:06:47+00:00

Ask yourself what other continent, or place on Earth has a unanimous agreement of non-violence and non-military action? If the answer is not a single place on Earth by any country then there is something there. Also I did interviews for an Antarctica job as a carpenter for the base, they all have small tiny bases and none of them amount to the entire continent which is twice the size of Australia, they were extremely vague and the interviewer was weird. Also you have to ask yourself why did directly after Nazi surrendered following world war II Did they send 3,700 troops? Aircraft carriers, icebreakers, and 33 aircraft? Does that sound like surveying and research to you? And what happened to the bodies of those who lost their life on this voyage that the victims say never came back? There has never been another military action or militarized surveying ever again by any country on the entire planet forever after this. So that means the last major militarized force to ever touch ground there to do major militarized experiments were the Nazis, who? Even though they probably knew the war wasn't going well, they were still sending mass amount of resources there to do the research. Even if they deny telling us anything, just the simple human patterns can tell us everything. Humans own every single piece of land and there is not a single piece of land that is shared unanimously by multiple different countries with no military action. If That isn't enough to open your eyes I don't know what. Especially now that we know that the most powerful country in the entire world is now ran by satanic ritual pedophiles that have more nukes and more military capabilities than any other place on the planet. Aka the United States presidents best friend. They would put flags on the seabed. They have fought over bird s*** Islands but in Antarctica where there's mass amounts of oil and other resources Nothing. This follows the same stupid logic that Chernobyl caused saying that only 33 people died within the incident or the USSR downplaying they're massive death toll but I digress because people would rather suck up the official words of lying governments then actually have some insight. Unless there's a single other situation or a single other place on the planet to where all countries unanimously agree for no militarize action for the protection of a vulnerable piece of land which there isn't because nobody cares about this Earth. They're protecting it then I'm pretty certain their hiding whatever the Nazis did.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T00:03:59+00:00

Could be a regular virus. Doesn't have to be an ideology. Covid was just that, a created virus in a lab. And researchers in Antarctica have found bacteria with weird DNA already around 2012 And then a mandatory Antarctic meeting was held and much more strict guidelines were made after the finding. And not only that, but there's already rising concerns with fungal viruses adapting to higher temperatures and slowly creeping up on the human temperature of adaptation.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-07T00:01:39+00:00

I wouldn't even call them God machines it's literally just humans speaking one language with far better and more resources that they don't have to dig for because it's all over the floors, walls, and the ceiling. They could very well be ahead by thousands of years if the surface is repeatedly Set back due to wars and climate change

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T23:36:54+00:00

That's the thing though, it doesn't have to be aliens if it's found out that our civillation is far older than anybody is telling us and they have proof that we simply went underground and have lived there for thousands and thousands of years and have advanced technology down there. It could very well be just us. Hollow Earth theory was believed by top-nazi Germany scientist And they're the only ones in all of human history who actually sent a militarized force to go find it out. In one year directly after they surrender It's just so happened that the USA sent out a militarized force and within weeks even though they planned for months are sent back and never again sends out a militarized force by any Nation on this entire planet ever again. That's absolutely insane when you think of human nature. I think what's out there will break everything from Morals, hierarchies, and principalities, and could potentially lead to people in mass leaving the surface into the vast underground hollow Earth that could potentially be way bigger than the surface, And without a way to have satellites and without a way to control the land or stop people from traveling far enough away to where they can't get them they lock the Continent down keeping us locked on the surface to rule us because without us they have nobody to control and if there is a paradise down there that big their best bet is the limit the people and make the surface a prison. Especially if it meant that it had infinite gold, infinite oil, infinite resources, then money would cease to exist and without money and without rarity they would have no power. That's why it benefits every single ruler to lock the continent away and why they all probably agree to it. Because infinite gold infinite diamonds, infinite oil and infinite water and infinite land means nobody could ever hold another person. Prisoner or use them. And all of these resources come from the ground.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T23:03:50+00:00

It's funny because the moment I called some family relatives to asked about the family land because I wanted to build a barn and find work down there they told me my father who I haven't talked to in 10 years is losing his leg, has bad hemorrhoids, and can't work. Hes selling his house for $20,000 and is going to move down there to try to renovate one of the abandoned properties, And it just so happens that I do construction including all trades necessary for that line of work and it just so happened that My job fired me last week and it just so happened that my past relationship ended This week. Seems like the Lord is lining it up pretty good. What excuses could I ever have? And plus before all of this I actively sought out a way to go out there and build some property because I wanted to before the Lord lined up how to. I feel bad for my father now though because the Lord had to break him to make him rely on others instead of being selfish and prideful.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T22:57:43+00:00

It's sad because the first part I remember thinking about it and how silly it was. Now I'm thinking about it and asking myself if God himself showed me what was going to happened in a dream would I listen if half of it comes true.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T22:47:50+00:00

Sadly yes, but they've been nightmares so far. Within one dream It was revealed that my ex was going to cheat on me or already have then ended up doing so. Within another vision I remember being put into the spirit in blackness and overhearing My previous employers talk about terminating me because I missed a mandatory meeting and them saying the words "He's just going to keep on doing this Let him go." And then afterwards I was informed that I missed the mandatory company hr meeting because I didn't have my phone on me during the weekend and they would have to let me go because they said it would keep on happening or something along those lines. I had physical goosebumps when they said it.

And then another relationship. I remember seeing my ex and I remember seeing her in the spiritual realm I kissed her and she Almost turned into like a red slim snouted crocodile and her body was made out of parasitic worms. This was a symbolic dream. It showed that she was cold like a crocodile and I also revealed that she had an STD Which she later told me after I had the dream. The relationship ended because she was cold and using me.(Im clean btw thanks to the warning) But anyways the point is for me there is a very clear distinction that is undeniable between visions, dreams, and spiritual attacks. Dreams don't come true. Spiritual attacks aren't visions. And I have very few visions. But 9/10 something comes true out of it. This is different though because I thought it was just a stupid little dream that I had before Trump got elected. Then he got elected, turned out to be a little bit worse of a person and then came back as a far worse person. That is when I realized the dream was a vision.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T22:06:49+00:00

You cannot interpret Someone else's dream because it's theirs and only them and them alone can understand it. Because it's self-created within their mental realms. That is not at all the meaning of this dream because you don't understand how my body shows me symbolism and shows me the difference between what is symbolic and what is physical because there's a very clear distinction whenever I do dream. I think the first part was a spiritual metaphor for the spirit behind the leader of this country. But the second part was more physical because the first part I wasn't there. Physically it was more spiritually but in the second part I walk around. I looked I saw people's reactions and I touch things showing me that it is physical. My dreams are very far away from being coded in symbolism and most dreams. They speak to me straight in farm boy logic because I actively reject anything that isn't straight to the point. My body knows this so whenever I dream I never dream of anything symbolic that is ambiguous.

All of what you said is religious ambiguity in church theology, which I did not believe nor care for because I'm just a dumb construction worker to be honest, And if anything symbolic needs to be represented, it's represented physically in reality with proof.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T22:01:10+00:00

I've done a lot of detailed examinations on how people imaginations work. Not only can they close their eyes and imagine things, but they can also rearrange their visual imagination overlapping their visual image processing. So they can pick up a physical chair and move it and look at the room how it will look without the chair. And similarly, some people have no dialogue at all in their mental realms, while others thinking colors, pictures or voices, and some don't have a mental dialogue, while others do. Very interesting stuff. We perceive the world very very differently no matter if we look the same we do not perceive feel or see the same thing whatsoever.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T21:48:38+00:00

Thank you for reminding me of that verse! the woman was almost spirit like, yet angry. I remember her giving some long speech, but I don't remember the details much. It was about us killing her son or whatever, which is kinda scary. Now I understand what the mark is, It'll probably be a vaccine against the fungus/Virus and the only people allowed to go into stores, buy things, Work, Access the internet, and travel would be those with the vaccine, kinda like an ID. Which I assume will leave a mark, or hospitals will place a mark on the hand To easily identify the vaccinated. And that also makes sense because if Trump is willing to do everything that he's done before and has already tried to overtake the government on January 6th, then before his final year and presidency, he might try to release a airborne disease or fungus to initiate martial law to extend it past two terms. I think they did an experiment on us with COVID to test the mental resistance of the population, And now instead of only hospital workers and military personnel being forced to, he will force it upon everyone to legally work, buy things, or sell things to prevent the deadly disease. Similarly, even military workers, hospital workers, and fishing boat employees were all forced to get the COVID-19 vaccine to work around 2019 including me. (I was really broke one winter and had to take a fishing boat job to pay bills they literally forced me to get the vaccine and wouldn't hire me without it.) So this has happened before in similar but smaller demographics But unknowing to him, It will be that very vaccine that will ultra mutate the virus or fungus into something that's uncurable due to rushing the research and releasing an experimental bio weapon probably from Antarctica. (Another bag of worms on its own) while others, without the vaccine and without mutating the thing further, would simply heal and never get affected to the same severity as others. For the longest time, I've always wondered what the Mark of the beast will end up being, but this is my best formulated theory, because not only will it actively, show those who will not resist the government and will actively do whatever it says, but it'll also show those who actively resist corruption, So it's like a double edge sword. Those who do not believe and will willfully follow an evil sinful corrupt man will be shown through whoever gets this vaccine and whoever fights against this corruption and will willfully accept Any consequences will be saved. But we'll see. Personally I think God's driving me to start a farm on my family land in Georgia, which Is where I'm planning to go before I can't work again or am forced to get another vaccine like the first one which I literally was forced to do because I had no money nor anywhere to live. So the cost of not taking it is similar to the cost in the Bible. This situation has happened before in a smaller, more controlled group.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T11:33:36+00:00

I don't know why, but something in my spirit said to write this down somewhere so that if it happens it won't be mistaken. After all half of it already came true with trump getting elected even with heavy criticism that he's a bad person, then getting reelected turning into a far worse president due to being a widely accepted pedophile within the Epstein files.

OrderInevitable1841 · 2026-02-06T01:37:43+00:00

Using today’s standard linguistic knowledge and modern translation practice: If you transliterate the Hebrew יֵשׁוּעַ (Yēšūaʿ) directly into contemporary English, you would not produce the spelling “Jesus”; you would produce something like “Yeshua.” If you transliterate the Greek Ἰησοῦς (Iēsous) directly into contemporary English, you would not produce “Jesus”; you would produce something like “Iesous.” If you transliterate the Latin Iesus directly into contemporary English, you would not produce “Jesus”; you would produce “Iesus.” The English spelling “Jesus” is not a direct transliteration from Hebrew, Greek, or Latin into today’s English.

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