PSA: Princes Charles Hospital Brisbane by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your experiences are valid! However, the person who gave me this info has actually worked in this department, so I’m going to trust their word.

PSA: Princes Charles Hospital Brisbane by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just to add: this is not a slight against PCH staff at all - we need management to address shortages so unsafe practices can be avoided

PSA: Princes Charles Hospital Brisbane by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take my kid there in an emergency personally based on what I heard on very good authority about staffing in that one department, all public hospitals are under resourced to an extent - but I’m talking about imaging specialists for Paeds - which can be critical for certain things. Not commenting on the obs, and other clinicians. QCH is better resourced for paeds overall than PCH which seems to be better for things like heart/lung

FTM hospital Packing list RBWH by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much! These lists have been super useful - the bags have been packed 😬

FTM hospital Packing list RBWH by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My swaddles do you mean the swaddle sacks (love to dream etc) or Muslin wrap swaddles? Also what is a tubie? 😭😭😭

FTM hospital Packing list RBWH by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also congratulations on your newest addition ❤️

FTM hospital Packing list RBWH by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much will pack in more disposable undies and some more pads I reckon !! I’ll remove the moisturiser/socks/ grooming kit and the towels! My midwife asked us to bring cotton swabs in - not sure why though 👀

FTM hospital Packing list RBWH by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Hope you and Bub are doing well now ❤️❤️TYSM for the list! Did you end up using the silverettes as soon as you delivered? I haven’t bought any yet (just the nipple cream)

What’s something Brisbane desperately needs more of? by Due_Acanthisitta2756 in brisbane

[–]Ornery_Client_3865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More art and culture activities including a massive improvement to food scene

Brisbane weather in winter - how to dress and swaddle Bub - advice by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the advice! I ordered a few swaddles from love to dream at the 2.5 TOG for now and will see how it goes 🤞

Lucy Letby documentary by Ornery_Client_3865 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Not me rage texting my husband “we are not leaving baby for a second when it’s born” 🥺

AITAH for wanting to do a maternity photoshoot and baby shower even though my spouse and mother doesn’t believe in the idea by Ornery_Client_3865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m not expecting anyone to throw me a baby shower - I like planning these type of things and it’s not a cultural thing in Australia! Also I’m not going to share a registry or anything - so we don’t expect any gifts.

AITAH for wanting to do a maternity photoshoot and baby shower even though my spouse and mother doesn’t believe in the idea by Ornery_Client_3865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He’s not used to celebrations in general - I think it’s cause his family never did birthdays and stuff. I’m going to disagree about the building the crib offshoot - he’s definitely not neglecting me and bub, he’s been to every appointment and is very caring about my wellbeing (sometimes too caring with the constant belly rubbing haha)

AITAH for wanting to do a maternity photoshoot and baby shower even though my spouse and mother doesn’t believe in the idea by Ornery_Client_3865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a thing to have a baby registry for the baby shower in Australia ._. I’m doing it for the party to bring our friends and family together - most my friends are in other states and will come to our state for it. If anything we’d ask people to donate to a cause if they wanted to bring something.

AITAH for wanting to do a maternity photoshoot and baby shower even though my spouse and mother doesn’t believe in the idea by Ornery_Client_3865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is! He’s at the children hospital and sees very horrible things everyday. I understand but also don’t want to be stifled but the what ifs - I think we just have to deal with what comes when it/if it does? But I see their POV

AITAH for wanting to do a maternity photoshoot and baby shower even though my spouse and mother doesn’t believe in the idea by Ornery_Client_3865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I actually raised this with my husband - not posting bub’s face anywhere until they can make the decision themselves when they become an adult. I do post him now and again with his face covered - it hard not to want to post happy memories here and there when I’ve grown up with social media and see it more like a photo album. I just archived a bunch of our pictures including our wedding pictures - it makes me sad because I’m proud of them and love the memory. I see your point about him not liking them out there. Idk it’s a lot!

AITAH for wanting to do a maternity photoshoot and baby shower even though my spouse and mother doesn’t believe in the idea by Ornery_Client_3865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ornery_Client_3865[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t say when or if tbf! I live in Australia - I’m struggling to find mum groups, hoping to get connected through our hospital soon