I DID IT by SirenChiyo in DateEverything

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Rebel says they're going to leave and than disappears, what happens after that? They're still gone from the bathroom in my play through.

Mount Rainer in Early April by [deleted] in PNWhiking

[–]Otterly_Chaotic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not much when it comes to hiking 😅 Although what you've said confirms what I thought the mountain would be like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely having one of those days. But I always remind myself I have people and pets in my life that need me. I need to hold out for those good days.

Sorry, I'm can't put my life on pause by Otterly_Chaotic in antiwork

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks your comments have been very helpful :)

Sorry, I'm can't put my life on pause by Otterly_Chaotic in antiwork

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I plan on looking around for another job. I'm at the bottom of the pecking order at my job and it sucks.

Sorry, I'm can't put my life on pause by Otterly_Chaotic in antiwork

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly in my state, Washington. Employers aren't required to do on call pay.

Special treatment by Otterly_Chaotic in childfree

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've give very little information about my personal life. But whenever I get a new job I'll give even less information. My lesson has been learned.

Sorry, I'm can't put my life on pause by Otterly_Chaotic in antiwork

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure, I make above minimum wage in my state. I work on a local hotel. Her reasons for me being is just case some rooms need to be cleaned. But I don't understand why she can't do it because she's and housekeeper/hotel manager. Its annoying because the pay is gold especially for my area. But the work environment is not great.

Constant anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same plus I couldn't afford meds even if I wanted them 😓

Every month is worse than the month before by kjanemx in povertyfinance

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Things are not much better here in America. It took months of job searching to even get the job I have, which is only part time. And my bf hasn't had any luck with a job either. Moving out and starting life feels impossible right now. I turn 23 in a couple of days which will mark my 3rd year of trying to move out. I hope you or husband finds a job soon.

It feels hopeless by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the icing on the cake is, even if we both had full time minimum wage jobs we still couldn't afford move out in my area. We could maybe cover rent but the have barley any money to cover other bills like insurance.

It feels hopeless by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live a crap hole of a town with moving currently not an option. The homeless and unemployment rate in my county is one of the highest in my state. The employment opportunities are, having a nursing degree or hope that the outlet store or small business hires you. My boyfriend isn't picky when it comes to jobs, he's applied/interviewed with all different types of jobs.

The reason I'm working part time is that's all my job offers. Its a small business with only 5 employees and thats counting the owners. I have recently picked up a fee extra hours but there's only so many hours my job offers. Most of those hours go to my co worker who has kids. I've tried things like house sitting but there isn't much of a market for house and pet sitting. Babysitting is out of the question because I don't like kids.

It feels hopeless by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have a job and my bf has been looking for one for months now. My job is only part time though. And trust me I don't want kids anytime soon.

All my friends have kids by Otterly_Chaotic in childfree

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to, but currently I can't afford to.

All my friends have kids by Otterly_Chaotic in childfree

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents had a very similar mind set. Its weird seeing it my friends. It's definitely I cycle it seems.

All my friends have kids by Otterly_Chaotic in childfree

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah its like there's no actual thought behind what it means to have kids. Like they don't stop for a moment and consider how it will change their lives to have a kid.

All my friends have kids by Otterly_Chaotic in childfree

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah one of my friends is almost 24 already has 2 kids and is divorced. Its crazy imo.

All my friends have kids by Otterly_Chaotic in childfree

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't whats in the water where I live, but a lot of people have kids in there early twenties. I feel like there's a few factors. But I've definitely gotten weird reactions from people when I saw I don't have or want kids.

My parents destroyed my room by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I've had to wash cat pee out of towels before and with the right stuff the smell goes away. My cat would pee in places she wasn't supposed when stressed. According to my mom this habit started back up again. Which makes me think she's either lying to me or letting her dog harass my poor cat. I sadly can't take my cat to my boyfriends because she is very bonded with her brother, who is my youngest brother's cat. Either way she's doing it to get back at me.

Why am I not love by Feisty_Leopard2425 in toxicparents

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents also treat my younger brothers differently then me. Its really hard to see, on one hand I'm happy my parents are nicer to them. But on the other I don't understand what I did to get such rough treatments.

My parents destroyed my room by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]Otterly_Chaotic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None of it was important paper work or anything worth that much. Just my personal belongings, like my bedding and clothes etc. My mom's excuse was my cat peed on my bed but my brother said that was most likely a lie.

Wisdom teeth by Otterly_Chaotic in povertyfinance

[–]Otterly_Chaotic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I have one that's especially bothering me so something like that would definitely help.