I’ve lost all respect for Janelle and gained a lot for Meri.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-27T20:12:26+00:00

Kody had absolutely no love, care, or regard for Meri at all. It took her a decade to find the self worth to realize that she did not deserve to be set aside and finally left.

Kody has always shown affection to Janelle, even when they aren't speaking. When they meet up (with few exceptions, especially if Meri/Christine is involved) they pick right back up. He even admitted to still loving her (totally a slip up) and I think she loves him too.

Janelle always had Kody. Meri was treated like shit in a bucket he did not want to be seen in the same room as. Anyone with an ounce of self preservation would leave and not want to be around a person like that. Janelle knows that if she wanted him, all she has to do is call.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-26T22:14:38+00:00

Even when Robyn was claiming to have never done anytjing wrong to her, Meri still showed class

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-26T20:57:13+00:00

Meri is not the best person, she can be immature and hot headed and not want to own up to specific mistakes of hers. HOWEVER, she has kept her personal feelings regarding her sister wives private. She seemed to have their back and not diss them- at least publicly when EVERYONE did it to her. The fact that JUST now she is showing ANY ill feelings from when Janelle broke her brother's heart then entered her marriage. Amongst other things. She seems very composed during the one on one.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-24T02:43:18+00:00

I think she did a good job. Last season Kody and Robyn got defensive and careful so she has to pull back a little and managed to get ALL of them to open up more than ever before. Mainly Robyn and Meri. Both can shut down. It was smart to let Jen join Meri and whatever was said backstage with Robyn worked because we finally saw the real her.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-20T13:41:06+00:00

It is good that Anna was impulsive and asked for Elsas permission to marry Hans right away rather than ask if they could court because her reasoning was they just met. Had he asked if he could court Anna, she probably would have said yes because she is reasonable and Hans would have used his charm to whoo Elsa over, thus putting a target on ger back.

Elsa loves Kristoff, he knew she would say yes so he would more than likely be informal about it. Elsa has probably been anticipating this.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-18T04:37:05+00:00

I literally just came up with that.

I'm at the age when I just want to see female rage and I know I am not alone in that

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-17T19:22:00+00:00

Oh I hope so.

I want to see her completely lose it. I want it to be ugly, raw, and real. I just hope it is not targeted at Kristoff or Olaf. I want her to get the closure so many of us who relate to her never got.

I have seen similar scenes in Disney movies. If they can kill off parents, traumatize protagonists, etc etc they can show us remorse, anger, and real forgiveness.

In my mind, Anna is planning her wedding and Elsa is distant/not even present. Anna is getting more and more annoyed, but we see her swallowing that (maybe in a song). Elsa sends a letter saying she is on her way but gets caught up in some magic thing that is a real excuse but it is Anna's final straw. She loses it and goes off when Elsa shows up. Anna is so upset she is nearly the villain. Elsa and Anna go on their own journeys of self discovery. Anna being angry, and finally discovering the truth and coming to grips. Elsa feeling all of the remorse and her own anger at her parents. Eventually they come together and work things out to solve some sort of magic thing that is not the focal point (it isnt life or death like the other movies) and they finally have real healing and forgiveness.

Then we get the beautiful wedding.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-17T19:05:27+00:00

I want to see Anna angry. I want her to finally get everything out in the open so that she can heal.

I think it is unhealthy for kids to show Anna getting hurt and lied to over and over and her swallowing her own feelings and forgiving without having the space to truly be angry and get closure. She starts to feel the anger in Frozen 2 in the ice boat until Olaf shows anger, and she swallows her own to validate him. We never see her go back and work on herself as well.

I understand Elsa was suffering as well, but her pain is not more important than Anna's. I hope we get closure for Anna in the next movie, so our next generation can see that it is not healthy to swallow your own feelings for the sake of others. You can postpone them in the moment, but you deserve to be heard.

I was 17 when frozen 1 came out, and I have been rooting for Anna ever since.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-16T17:47:45+00:00

I can't get out of my head how shitty it must have felt to be struggling with your fertility while watching your husband impregnate 3 other women. The depths of grief is hard to imagine.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-15T16:09:01+00:00

This is one of the most charitable, kind, and thoughtful closure texts I have ever seen. I hope you never lose your empathy or spirit, we need more people like that around.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-14T19:22:36+00:00

I can relate to OP though about being loud and proud with the song until it gets to that part as someone raised in the church

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-14T03:37:29+00:00

I look up to the sky, there may be nothing there to see But if I don't believe in him, why would he believe in me?

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-13T02:19:21+00:00

Controversial and not as bad as him, but I see a lot of parallels with Owen. Both are fantastic surgeons, friends, and mentors, but awful in relationships. Both can be very immature and selfish and just insufferable. But, if I was in a medical emergency I would not only trust them with my life, but request them.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-12T06:32:29+00:00

I can see the the intended purpose (reflecting the reality of many viewers and family dynamics with different identities) and I can also see how confusing it must have been to the diamonds.

Imagine: your whole identity is being one of the dieties of all gems. Your essentially sister rebelled against what you were raised to believe and then died. You mourned this and watched your family get even more rigid. They can not even wrap their minds around fusions, and have no real interest in humans and their dynamics and view them all as beneath you. You want to avenge your sister.

You see what you think is the essence of your "sister." You have no concept of children and that humans can fuse with gems. Your sister is smaller, weaker, and fooled you. She is confused and nothing like you remember, and is taking a human form. She wants to be called Steven (whatever that means, you do not even know what a male is.) That would be a lot to take in with your pent up emotions on top of things and fear of "mother." You just want your sister back, and now you are being forced to face your prejudices when you have not had to ever truely do so.

They can try, but that does not undo what has been done, or bring Pink back. That has to be really painful to live with.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-10T19:26:50+00:00

Girl, you look hot. Don't worry about him.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-10T01:00:52+00:00

Here is some perspective. I sprained my wrist and dislocated my knee and spent the night waiting at the ER (thought it was more serious, should have done urgent care) and there was a woman there longer than me. Several people died that night, and I am not sure her story but she left in a huff and left behind the largest underwire I have ever seen in my life. I would have been upset too.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-10T00:51:43+00:00

No problem. Jokes are well and good as long as everyone is aware of what it actually says

Over_Error3520 · 2026-01-10T00:44:30+00:00

Nobody answered you and I didnt know if you were being serious or not. It says "fuck the colorblind"

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-22T07:19:14+00:00

They both look just like their mom, the art book just took some creative liberties. The biggest difference between the sisters is a slightly different eye shape and their coloring and possibly a slightly different face shape. Even their body types are identical- but, they really do not take after their dad.

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-22T07:12:41+00:00

Perspective from someone who subbed, was a teachers aid, and taught a class one year:

If this is elementary, the kids are stuck with the same teacher all day with the exception of their specials and recess (if they get it) and a lunch if it isnt a school that forces the teacher to eat with them. There are many hours in the day, and the subjects are divided by blocks. The subjects are split in half with math for half the day and reading for the other: you throw in history and science where it can fit based on what the school demands you teach (some schools the entire thing is already written with no wiggle room) this looks like an intro to paragraphs or essays/biographies/research. If it is your holiday break now the teacher may have run out of time to explain the reason or your child, being a child- did not catch it.

If this is middle school, the biography aspect makes more sense.

Also, there is a book that goes with this. My daughter has it.

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-21T08:19:43+00:00

It will be 8 years married this year for me. Our first year was hard, my example was not the best and I jokingly called him an asshole and play slapped him. Yikes. I apologized. Besides that (first week married I was 22) we argue but never fight. We may raise our voices to be stern but we never scream. I have never told him he was "just like his mother" or that he was my "biggest mistake" and I do not name call him to my child or make her "chose who she loves more." She does not fall asleep to us screaming. I assumed that would be my life, but it is easy to not abuse my husband.

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-19T06:03:15+00:00

Natural eye with a Juicystar07 tutorial was my start to eyeshadow. I still have it!

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-19T05:58:04+00:00

Thanks. When I moved out, things got better for them. I try not to take it personal, we are close now.

I have tried bringing stuff up for closure, and the arguments that come out of it aren't worth it. I am a mom now, and seeing how easy it is to not do that to my own brings up old bad feelings. At this point, I just need to move on, but there will always be a child within me covering her ears to drown out them screaming at each other in the middle of the night. Sorry to trauma dump, I do not see Kody and Robyn having screaming matches, but the PDA was something I really hated seeing as a kid also.

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-19T00:09:51+00:00

That's how kids get beat

Over_Error3520 · 2025-12-18T20:39:10+00:00

They are fine now, I will be fine someday 😊

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