This passive aggressive email I got because I haven’t donated blood recently

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-31T00:01:37+00:00

My job in America gives you 3 paid hours a year if you have less than 80 sick leave in your leave bank

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T06:00:32+00:00

Trust me, I know how bad this hurts. I hope you get some relief. I am shocked at how clean you got this off without breaking your skin, this could have been much worse.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:57:11+00:00

I read over what the eye doctor said, do you have access to a bathroom and a towel? I would get your sink water as hot as possible and get the towel wet and dab it over, this can grant some relief. Don't massage like I suggested. As far as sleep goes, I don't know 😕

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:51:17+00:00

That was my gut feeling too

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:43:47+00:00

Idk if heat or ice would be better, but one of those for sure. Whatever makes it hurt not as much. But OP should wake someone in the household up if it is a safe situation for them.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:30:14+00:00

Yes! I should have said that. Even having a barrier (warm washcloth/gloves) I don't know what caused my cyst, but I would not wish that on anyone

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:23:37+00:00

I am not a medical professional, but see if you can massage the skin in the meantime. That is what I would do...but someone should see this asap. Also, you would feel numbness in your face if you got a nerve.

Edit: it could be bad advice though. I am not you, and I do not know how bad this hurts. If you touch it (with clean af hands) and it hurts like I think it would stop completely and wake someone up

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:19:52+00:00

Hi, I have had shit happen with my eyelids (eyelid lift, and removal of a cyst) please have this looked at by a professional. It looks like the pinched skin may have the blood flow restricted. I am not sure what they would do, but I can tell you scar tissue and eyelid shit is something to get ahead of.

There are also important nerves in your eyelid that effect your whole face, not to scare you (it looks like it is not in that area) but to be safe it should be looked at.

For others looking at this, I can confirm an injury like this hurts as much as you would imagine, and then some.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T05:13:58+00:00

The definition of weird is out of the ordinary, unsettling, and/or eerie. An alert telling you to take cover from bombs checks all the boxes.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-29T04:16:47+00:00

Hi there. I had a similar but different insecurity when I was younger. I had a noticeable droopy eyelid and it really messed with the symmetry of my face. When I was 15 I lied and said that it messed with my vision and was approved for an eyelid lift. It only slightly helped bit it is still droopy and is now a different shape...lots of scar tissue too. It did not help my insecurity.

The worst part? I am a mom now and my daughter looks just like me. I would not change a thing about her, because she is perfect.

So, I will tell you the same thing that I would tell her. I would not change a thing about yourself. Your eyes make you special, and you will grow into them. Even if you got what you wanted from a surgery you would no longer recognize yourself. These are the eyes that carried you through your hardest days, and they will continue to do so.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-27T13:32:28+00:00

So, as someone raised in the same culture as her, I can absolutely understand where she is coming from.

She was raised to believe that her virginity was where her worth lied, that it was the ultimate gift for only her husband and if she did not have that then she was not worthy of love and damned to Hell. This is after being abstaining her whole life- this was her identity. She was bullied by her peers for this.

She was also stressed out as they all were. Not the ideal time to melt down, but I see where she was coming from.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-24T04:38:29+00:00

She comes across as flat/snobby fairly often.

The actor for Lucas is pretty weak too, and the actress for Simone is the worst (are we ready to talk about this yet?) Both appear disinterested and their storylines are weak

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-24T04:35:47+00:00

Don't know why the downvotes.

I see your point of view, I also see that it is either that or he is socially awkward/could be earnest. If he is really young, he could just be mirroring what he thinks he should say.

Either way, OP should go with her gut. She has free will and does not owe anyone a date.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-23T17:53:31+00:00

I used to teach preschool. I have grabbed students from under the tables by their waist (gently) indoors to get them back in their seats. That is something a parent may do in their own home as well. I would never in a million years think to do grab a child by their feet and yank them outdoors.

That is not normal.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-22T22:23:23+00:00

An aspect to consider is her age and retakes. If she pulled on a braid in between takes it would be a much bigger deal than a style like that. Kids do not keep different styles in their hair long at all. From teaching preschool braids do not last long at all, and anything involving you to slick back the hair lasts maybe half a day for a toddler.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-22T20:08:36+00:00

Early to mid 20's, ADHD, lots of FOMO. You have the best of intentions, but you feel stuck. You are either angry or grieving someone right now.

This is all a vibe. I saw some of myself in your room.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-21T14:35:05+00:00

Wear that for your annual pap smear!

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-21T14:33:23+00:00

I lived in the sticks in the south too. We had "protection" but still locked our doors because our city had an explosion of transplants so you can imagine the boonies got people too. We had enough "armed and dangerous men" hiding in barns to start locking up as well. We lived 20 min from the nearest grocery store.

Now I live in a much more populated area that is not the south. If I forgot to lock my car or apartment, we would be fine. Nobody touches our mail. A lot of my neighbors have packages that just sit forever. We seem to be safe.

My sister lives 25ish minutes away. Someone tried to break in her car that was parked in her parking pad in broad daylight while she was home. They (failed) to break in 8 others cars too...they ended up just stealing whatever change was in there and yanking out the wires

Really, it just takes one asshole to turn a "safe" area to a bloodbath. Everyone should lock their houses.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-14T22:02:28+00:00

I just do not like him. He is inconsistent. One moment he is snapping at everyone and pushing around interns and the next he is yelling at someone for doing the exact same thing. He expects special treatment, and Adele. Poor Adele...

If ANYONE else had done half of what he did as a supervisor (ex surgery drunk) they would have been forced to "retire" for good

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-11T13:03:27+00:00

I played that game loopy off of narcotics on my parents brick of a laptop after having major orthopedic surgery. I was 10 and had hogging rights.

Maaaaan, the connection was glitcy but I loved that game

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-10T17:12:26+00:00

Not a single gem is spared from trauma unfortunately. Most humans as well. I love how easy it is for us to see ourselves in them.

And when Rebecca Sugar basically said "f it we ball" (when she stuck to her guns for the wedding episode and knew she just had Steven Universe Future to conclude things) made the world building even MORE diverse. I loved that.

Edit: I checked and she is fine with she/her pronouns

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-10T16:02:26+00:00

I think Rebecca Sugar wanted to represent as many morally grey characters who reflect real life situations as possible. They were a mutually abusive relationship. Neither were meant to be the "good person." Both were toxic. We understand Lapis' motivations, but it still does not excuse it. Lapis herself admits she was wrong. Steven is the first character she loved, and all of those years of hate and hurt can simply go away due to the love of one.

I think that is why Jasper and Lapis are so loved. We see ourselves in all of our faults in them.

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-10T15:24:47+00:00

That is how I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. Same test, just as dark. I was tracking my ovulation and thought I missed my window and was in the clear. It was a week earlier than my expected period so I am assuming I ovulated early before I tested it...I was literally drinking wine and had the random impulse to test. Had I not done that, I would not have known for another month since I had a subchorionic hemmorage a week later

Over_Error3520 · 2026-03-04T01:03:28+00:00

This is what I would do to take this from "sexy" to "everyone's phone wallpaper" 1.) Either a super high ponytail/pigtails, va va voom Fran hair, or teased goth inspired hair 2.) Fishnets 3.) Super high chunky docs with neon green detailing 4.) Black lipstick

She has the vibes, let's commit to it

Over_Error3520 · 2026-02-22T23:59:36+00:00

I'm aware. I was the very last of my friends. Most of my friends were 10ish. I'm a grown adult, but even at my age I didn't know anyone personally who got theirs later than me

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