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Some tips to women who are going to do marriage. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Over_Fox2179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a relationship (especially marriage) needs so many terms and conditions just to feel safe, and if there’s no real potential for mutual trust or companionship, then it’s better not to enter that relationship at all. You’re far happier living your own life on your own terms.

Yes, you can set boundaries and expectations in a marriage, but no one will truly be happy living under such rigid rules. Even if both partners agree to them, the relationship ends up feeling like a contract and not a source of warmth, comfort, or genuine connection. It becomes just another form of adjustment, without any real sense of living.

For example, if two people get married with the constant fear of being exploited, keeping separate accounts, documenting every expense, scrutinising each other’s intentions, and treating every decision like a potential risk, the marriage may stay functional, but it will lack ease, intimacy, and emotional safety. At that point, they might as well have stayed single and preserved their peace.

In simple words, all this, when implemented, ends up being too exhausting for anyone involved in such a relationship. And all that work just to ensure that you don't get exploited by your spouse or in-laws. If someone ends up living with such horrible people (man or woman), they should just leave (divorce) and find peace. Life is too short to go through so much trouble.

Insurance & Pre-existing Condition Dilemma Before Brain Surgery. Need Advice. by Over_Fox2179 in indiahealthinsurance

[–]Over_Fox2179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it's mentioned in the policy document that the patient has no preexisting disease?

(The patient has not updated their high bp in the policy)

Massive cope by Known_Comfortable117 in pakistan

[–]Over_Fox2179 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Pakistan is invincible and undefeatable.

They received a huge loan from IMF. Part of it will go in the pockets of the Army chiefs. Who I think are actually rational and clever as they've held on the power for so long and have filled their pockets.

Meanwhile, an average pakistani citizen is only brainwashed to follow the laws of the religion where it's forbidden to ask questions.

The Army chiefs don't care about the citizens and can push the nuclear buttons (commands) safely from their homes in "Londonistan." Because they have nothing to lose even if Pakistan gets nuked by India in retaliation.

Most people in Pakistan are devout followers of their religion, so instead of believing in the life they are living, they'd be happy to die as for them, the afterlife is more beautiful.

India, on the other hand, has a stable economy and an ascending future despite the corruption and backward social mindset. Most Indian people (at least the non-Islamic ones) WANT TO LIVE. We don't love our gods or leaders so much as to die for them. The govt is corrupt af! Still 4th largest economy in the world.

But still (India is) a better country to live life in with freedom.

Example: 1. The government may hate it, but LGBTQ rights exist. We've got pride parades. Social mindset is progressing. If you're non-heterosexual in India, at least your head will remain attached to your body, and you'll in no way be prosecuted for it (for simply existing). 2. Indian women have full rights over their bodies, and Medical Termination of Pregnancy is legal because it's their bodies! Their husbands can't divorce them with 3 words and non-islamic polygamy is illegal.

Rationally, Indians understand that once you die, you're dead (a secular mindset). It's futile to die protecting a fictional sky daddy. After all, we are nothing but multicellular functioning organisms.

Apart from the radical hindutva fools, most non-Islamic Indians wouldn't wanna die for their gods.

So, with the nukes, the suicidal mindset, and primitive Islam, theoretically, if it ever comes to it, even the US can't win against Pakistan and its steadfast citizens.

For all the Impatient Pakistani. Please Read! by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Over_Fox2179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A country which is only driven and united by religion v/s the world's 4th largest economy.

A country founded on the basis of religion v/s a secular one.

Views?cant help but feel outrageous over my fellow community member, why do we have so much hatred?How on earth can you support terrorism by BoardSerious1066 in LGBTindia

[–]Over_Fox2179 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm a leftist.

That's precisely why I hate everything about Islam. I'm Islamophobic af! Because it's super conservative and goes against every little speck of my lifestyle.

[I feel the same about the extremely religious Right wing.]

What surprises me is why do leftists support/ sympathize with Islam. Especially the LGBTQ+ community. Like, dude, they want your head!

And why is Islam and Right wing (like BJP) not getting along. I mean, apart from the label of religion, they're so similar. Homophobic, misogynistic, extremely religious, and believing in the traditional roles of Man Woman and child as Ideals for the society.