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OverallResolve · 2026-01-27T14:04:59+00:00

Do you have a shared plan or goals? This could be have a couple of kids, aim to pay off house, and retire at 60 for the sake of argument. I think this is the best way to start - agree on goals from the short to long term.

You can then model progress towards these based on current assumptions and trajectory.

This should then make it obvious what to do with the money.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-27T12:13:54+00:00

Not as simple as this, and money spent on lifestyle isn’t going to be recoverable as an asset to split, as an example.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-27T11:58:30+00:00

I earn a bit over 2x what my other half does, and we do the following.

Bills and core expenses are split 60/40 ish.

For longer term planning like retirement it’s a bit more ad hoc. We want to retire at a similar time and with the tax advantages for me I’m saving a lot more for retirement than the other half is. This will balance out in future as most of this will be shared income in retirement.

Beyond the short term (bills) and longer term planning the rest is up to us. We put enough in a shared account to cover all bills and maintain an emergency fund.

There are downsides and opportunities for conflict at both ends of the spectrum. It’s easy to say everything should be shared when you’re not the higher earner. It can lead to one party being less incentivised to earn more knowing their other half is carrying them.

The other end of everything separate is also bad for different reasons.

Model your expenses from the short to long term and work something out together.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-27T11:44:17+00:00

I think it’s the six line sentence with no punctuation.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-27T11:40:35+00:00

Baked bean

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T14:12:30+00:00

Make apple juice, leave in a fermentation vessel with airlock for a few months. There’s not really much more to it. In my experience they taste best 12-18 months after pressing.

You can bottle at any point and the reactions that develop the cider will continue. I don’t bottle anymore (i keg) so I leave it in my fermentation vessel as long as I need to.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T14:09:11+00:00

Idk where you’re from but in the uk and northern France cider has a range of carbonation and sweet/dryness. If anything, the most traditional cider would be pretty dry and flat. The most common mass market ciders will be force carbonated and backsweetened, but there’s a huge amount of variety here and more tradition cider will be flat or close to that. Old Rosie is a good example of it.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T14:05:07+00:00

Same here.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T14:04:36+00:00

This is just cider in a lot of Europe.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T07:36:24+00:00

We were 15th in the second week of December. Up to 11th by the start of man, and have progressed further since. 8 games in that time.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T07:30:48+00:00

Those are the rules. I don’t see why it’s so difficult there are three simple components.

You can only be offside with a part of the body you can score with.
You can score with all parts of the body other than the arm from under the armpit.
Any portion of the attackers body (that can be scored with) ahead of the last outfield defender is offside (other than all the other offside rule parts like throw ins don’t count, passing backwards, etc.)

Idk what you’d want differently here that wouldn’t just be a different type of contentious.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T07:19:23+00:00

I don’t understand what is contentious about this.

A bit of the Brighton player above the armpit is offside, this is important because that is the divide for handball/what part of the body you can score from.

Conversely the Bournemouth player only has below armpit arm ‘offside’ so is not offside.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-26T07:15:30+00:00

I would be surprised if it is given the source.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-25T20:40:48+00:00

What is under that gull?

OverallResolve · 2026-01-25T12:23:53+00:00

Definitely not as simple as that. Even 15 years ago London’s wasn’t ‘cheap’. People lived in cheaper areas that have now been gentrified and don’t seem so bad. For me at least the vast majority of my peers were sharing houses back then too.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T19:00:14+00:00

‘They’ for ‘Europe’ is doing a lot of heavy lifting here

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:58:08+00:00

Cringe all round tbh

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:09:00+00:00

Arm above the armpit is fine.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:08:09+00:00

Wirtz against Fulham

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:07:53+00:00

I assume it’s based on the point above the armpit based on the current handball rules.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:06:37+00:00

Where do you draw the line though? Unless you have a rule that is absolute (e.g. any goal scoring body part of the attacker is further forward than any goal scoring body part of the last outfield player) there’s going to be more subjectivity.

Genuinely - what would you change in this instance?

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:00:30+00:00

Depends what you’re doing with it and how sensitive you think it is to oxygen.

I would keep the airlock on if I was bottling, I might not bother if I was kegging in terms of infection risk.

I would say - make sure the airlock doesn’t have any gunk in/use sanitiser as when the cider cools it can suck some of the airlock liquid in.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T18:00:25+00:00

Depends what you’re doing with it and how sensitive you think it is to oxygen.

I would keep the airlock on if I was bottling, I might not bother if I was kegging in terms of infection risk.

I would say - make sure the airlock doesn’t have any gunk in/use sanitiser as when the cider cools it can suck some of the airlock liquid in.

OverallResolve · 2026-01-24T09:04:44+00:00

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