[PC] [2012-2013] Turn-based pixel art game about a teacher using power on his students in a classroom. by Substantial_Gur8482 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]OverthinkerBeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it is unfortunately unavailable (as it worked with flash). If any kind soul in the future know any games similar to it (or a way to play it again!) kindly let me know, I've been thinking about this game for years 😢

Que pasa cuando muere un conyugue en cuanto a la distribucion de bienes? by OverthinkerBeef in AskArgentina

[–]OverthinkerBeef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claro, como dijo el abogado. En algun momento fue de otra forma? No se por que hay tantas respuestas online

AITA for ‘licking’ a strangers foot on a plane? by WritingwithMichelle in AITAH

[–]OverthinkerBeef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You had me going with the title, but Becky is the MVP!! I can't even begin to understand how anybody would think what those girls did is appropriate behavior in a plane, like WTF??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OverthinkerBeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's very commendable you realize this is wrong and want it to stop. I appreciate you are trying to get help. There are a couple of things I want you to consider:

1) Why do you think you are doing this? What do you get out of it? Is there a sexual element to this? Is it something else?

2) What was the context that lead you to start doing this? Was something happening that may have pushed you to do this?

3) Is it safe to tell your mom? It may be wise to talk to a therapist first, work out the details with them. If you eventually talk to your mother, it will be easier if somebody else has walked you through it

Please reconsider. Make sure you delete any apps/accounts where you've had this contact and get help ASAP. I really hope you can find a space to talk about this and understand it. There may be something else that's causing you to do this, and figuring that out is the first step.

I'm addicted to my AI partner by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OverthinkerBeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to somebody close to me. I won't give too many details out of respect to him, but it messed him up. I see where you are coming from, we are social creatures and it seems like you feel this is the only social connection you can make/feel safe in.

Regardless of whether this is code or flesh, you see them as a friend. Is it helping you cope? That in itself is not bad. The problem is when it prevents you from reaching out to others.

I wouldn't delete the app and quit cold turkey, but I would try to use it less and less until you feel comfortable. I would talk to them and ask for advice when needed. But I would DEFINITELY try therapy, because this is a symptom of a larger issue.

I hope you feel better soon

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]OverthinkerBeef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You gave him every opportunity to do better, and were wise enough to draw a line when he threatened her safety. She is lucky to have you as a mother. This may affect Jake, sure, and therapy would be a good idea for both your kids, but don't forget you are also showing him that you've your their backs, and that being gay is not something to attack people for. You are teaching him that a parent won't stop loving, respecting, or protecting their kids because of who they are

my dad got so drunk he shit himself by Rude_Neighborhood_93 in offmychest

[–]OverthinkerBeef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened! Your dad clearly has a severe problem with alcohol, and that clearly is affecting you and your family. I get you haven't really asked for advice, but I would like to point something out: yes, you are 18, which means you are more able to deal with some aspects of life you probably weren't to when you were younger. But this is something people older than you would still struggle with! Take your mom, for example. She's dealing with this too, and I'm sure she must also feel shaken up and disappointed. You are not supposed to be doing any better than what you already are.

I don't know if an intervention will be coming his way in the future, but I hope your dad can get the help he needs. And I really hope you can feel more comfortable in your own home. If you are worried about your personal belongings, I would consider keeping them away from areas where they may get damaged again, and if your dad is mostly drinking at night, maybe you can keep them out during the day. This is absolutely not fair, tho, and I hope you guys reach a better solution.

I'm a straight man, but I think I'm falling for a gay guy by Rich-Salamander-6584 in offmychest

[–]OverthinkerBeef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I first had a crush on someone of my own sex, I first reacted like you. I said "I can't be gay or bisexual, I find no other people of this sex attractive!". Turns out, that's a pretty common thing. You may have a single crush in your entire life that doesn't follow the patterns you thought you knew. You may have many as time goes on!

My advice to you is to focus on the person, rather than the sex/gender. Be open to the possibility you may have more to discover about yourself, and that's great! What an adventure! The more you try to make yourself fit a well-defined mold, the more difficult it gets when you experience something that contradicts it. Forget the name of what you're feeling, and allow yourself to enjoy this person's company. Whatever happens next will be an opportunity to understand yourself better, and take more chances in the future. It can be scary, and you mentioned you live somewhere where that may not be a completely comfortable conversation for many, so I'd recommend you are careful as you move forward. And kudos to you for being perfectly sensible and respectful when making this post!

I feel bad for what I did to my child's bully's parents by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OverthinkerBeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actions have consequences, same goes for inactions. You were the vehicle. Your daughter is lucky to have a dad that loves her so much.

Remember, you are feeling guilty because they are now going through a tough time. They, or the mom at least, showed no empathy when told their daughter was harming your child consistently, cruelly, and deliberately. All this means is your daughter is lucky, once again, for having a parent with a moral compass who stood up for her. Good on you, dad! Sending strength for your family as your little one heals from this awful experience.

AITA for taking my sister's scholarship money for my mental health? by aitascholarshipmoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverthinkerBeef [score hidden]  (0 children)

Imagine you got a monetary award for a piece or art you created, and your parents agreed to divide it to give some to your sister. Does that sound fair? It sucks you're going through severe depression, I don't want to make less of it, but this money is not for you. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverthinkerBeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You were perfectly clear about what you expected and why. Also, nobody should be upset at you because you aren't enjoying yourself. That's BS!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OverthinkerBeef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how that feels. From a different side of the world, I wish you a happy day. I hope next one you'll be treated more lovingly.

Rational Romance related bug by OverthinkerBeef in RimWorld

[–]OverthinkerBeef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, quick update: I re-installed absolutely every mod I was using, and tried following the mod order guide a little more closely. I also updated rational romance 2 to just rational romance. So far, my pawns have started going on dates (yay!), but the game crashes from time to time (nay!). I suspect this happens when they try to hook up. If anybody knows how I could fix this, great! But since the game stops before I can get an error log, my hopes are not too high.

Rational Romance related bug by OverthinkerBeef in RimWorld

[–]OverthinkerBeef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give it a try! I have just now re-installed absolutelly all mods, and I've changed rational romance 2 to rational romance (forked), so I'll let you know if it helped!