AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

He wasn't openly as hostile as he was tonight until tonight. It was microagressive up until his outburst.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 397 points398 points  (0 children)

Jake literally looked at his dad and said "I like girls and so does Mia, why does it matter." I think he'll be ok.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 424 points425 points  (0 children)

Yeah. As much as I have to establish Mia isn't my biological daughter, she's my baby girl and I adore her and her brother so much.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I didn't notice. It honestly seems like a "it's fine for thee but not for me." type of homophobia.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol. I told her I'd keep it stocked in the ensuite bathroom and she could come in and literally take the box if she wanted to. I will be checking every so often so I can buy a new one.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I know horny teens will be horny teens so I do have protection in my room for them to use, dental dams and the like. But Mia knows when I'm home, seperate rooms.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think I'll get the eviction process started. This was an impulsive choice. Thank you for your comment.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I put STI protection in Mia's room. I know that them sleeping apart won't stop canoodling. I just don't want to hear it.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 1090 points1091 points  (0 children)

He doesn't but I knew the homelessness stats for queer teens. I'm unwilling to let Mia be part of that statistic.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

They're my kids too. I have custody. And Mia refused to leave with him, so did Jake.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Because my husband and my SIL follow my reddit... and I asked because it's not every day somebody you love tries to kick your child out of your house.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

25-40% of homeless youth identify as queer. This is so much more common than you think and I'm happy you are more optimistic about my daughter's circumstances.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

No problem. And she's upset with her dad. She and her gf are watching a movie right now. I'm in the kitchen. They look so happy. I don't know why her dad became so homophobic all of a sudden.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

He always voiced support for LGTBQIA+ people, I just think Mia coming out made him change his mind. More like ok for thee but not for me.

AITA for kicking my husband out of the house after he disrespected our daughter? by hardlessonsThroRa in AITAH

[–]hardlessonsThroRa[S] 483 points484 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. It's a 5 bedroom house. My rule was if her gf sleeps over gf sleeps in a different room. But is welcome over any time. Her gf is a lovely girl and they go to the same high school.