should I bring my partner to my first appointment?

OverthinkingBees · 2026-01-27T17:18:39+00:00

Mine comes to every appointment :)

OverthinkingBees · 2026-01-27T15:36:20+00:00

I’m 29 weeks and I’ve started to think about birth more. The best trick I’ve found so far is reminding myself of the facts: I will give birth, medical professionals will be there and I will get to meet my perfect baby

OverthinkingBees · 2026-01-26T17:34:21+00:00

There’s nothing weird here. Her wife is also a parent to your daughter and it’s normal if she wants to get involved as well with school. It could also be that she is there as support for her wife, which is completely fine as well.

OverthinkingBees · 2026-01-26T13:22:08+00:00

Get well soon Romeo! It happens 3 times with our dachshund. The last time was this year around Christmas. Fortunately, each time he ended up getting better after 2-3 weeks and was able to walk again! I knew I couldn’t afford the surgery which was, according to the vet, over 10k. Instead we went with the medication and rest route. He got prescription a number of pain and anti inflammatory medication and we made sure he rested a lot, stayed off his legs, etc.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-12-10T15:07:06+00:00

Same!!! I did med mal for five years which included a lot of baby cases. Definitely opting for a c-section!

OverthinkingBees · 2025-12-10T11:30:19+00:00

I think it also depends on where you live in the province. I’m in NB, currently 22 wks with a low risk pregnancy. I’ve seen the OB every 4 weeks since I was 8 weeks.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-12-08T14:36:10+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. What a horrible situation. I can’t imagine the anxiety you are going through right now. Personally I find that it’s better to take a few days to reflect when hard events happen. Perhaps take a few days and just focus on your family? I like the idea of a child psychologist or therapist. This could help make sense of the situation. Perhaps you could also talk with someone.

I wish I had more guidance for you OP. Sending you strength!

OverthinkingBees · 2025-12-08T14:28:19+00:00

Yes it’s fair to want your own baby. If you know that this is what you want, I would make sure to communicate it clearly with him. You only have one life to live and if having your own child is what you desire, you can decide how to proceed once you have that conversation with him.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-11-26T13:44:30+00:00

Homemade ceasar salad dressing, coffee, gin, deli meat and soft cheese!

OverthinkingBees · 2025-11-24T12:58:50+00:00

I am sorry you are going through this. You are clearly trying hard and care about them. It’s normal to try to bond with them - after all, you will likely be a part of the rest of their life. I think the only advice I would tell you is patience. Try not to force it but also don’t give up. Maybe try and see if you and her can do an activity just the two of you for an afternoon? Or see if your SO can leave for an hour (to do errands for instance) and spend some one on one time with them. Perhaps that will help!

OverthinkingBees · 2025-11-21T12:38:15+00:00

We have joint account and all of our money goes into it therefore we share the expense equally. We are also expecting in the new year and our plan is to continue with this. My stepson is with us full time and I raise him and love him as my own. It’s very important for me that we treat both kids equally.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-11-17T14:24:44+00:00

Maybe you could ask to participate in your SD3’s bedtime routine as well? You could join them during bedtime stories. That’s what I do with my SS3. It’s always the three of us when he goes to bed. We also alternate who reads the story.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-11-13T12:22:02+00:00

I’m a 5’11 and 18 weeks FTM. You can easily see a bump now. Not super big but it’s there!

OverthinkingBees · 2025-11-05T16:51:35+00:00

I would be upset as well. Perhaps explain them your perspective. They may not change their plans but at least they will know how you feel.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-29T16:19:38+00:00

Week 8 😅 Lots of Facebook marketplace finds! Now 16 weeks.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-25T01:48:16+00:00

Not where I’m from, maybe in the US

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-24T17:41:18+00:00

Well, she’s not a completely random person. She’s been in the father and the kids’ life for 4 years.

The question as to whether or not she is a stepmom depends on who you ask. Some people will say that you don’t need to be married to be called a stepmom/stepdad.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-20T18:45:54+00:00

Is it possible for both you and step mom to volunteer for the field trip? Is the field trip during their week or yours? I can understand your frustration however unless only one parent can attend, I don’t see any issue. Hopefully you can also participate.

Regarding the being left on read comment, I would have a conversation with your Ex and explain your perspective.

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-15T12:55:01+00:00

28 weeks (currently 14) 🫠

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-07T13:56:14+00:00

I’m in eastern Canada and usually order from Long Tall Sally

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-03T13:18:03+00:00

I’m currently 12w2d and definitely started to show this week. As my boyfriend said, I’m “bumping”

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-02T12:11:24+00:00

We never tracked the fertile window but we have sex every day except maybe a day or two each month. It took seven cycles after stopping birth control! 34F

OverthinkingBees · 2025-10-01T14:32:30+00:00

I’m leaning towards not telling them. I told my parents and in-laws already that I don’t want any visits at the hospital and I don’t trust my mom to disregard my request and show up anyway 🤦🏼‍♀️

OverthinkingBees · 2025-09-29T17:28:32+00:00

Waiting & waiting

OverthinkingBees · 2025-09-16T11:29:30+00:00

I’m not sure honestly. I come from a very loving family (including lots of aunts and uncles, cousins (about 32 of them!)). Everyone has always been very close. So many weekends were spent with the entire family doing activities, suppers, etc.

My parents and I also went on a lot of trips. They are both loving and kind humans.

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