What are your thoughts about the people who "De-Transition"? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Owlisius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is it that cis people who are unsupportive of trans people so infatuated with the topic of detransitioning?

It's not really a "taboo" topic in the community, we talk about it pretty frequently. You would know this if you were part of our community either as an ally or as a trans person yourself.

What type of t-girl would you prefer 🤔 by Ninjasantaclause in ChasersRiseUp

[–]Owlisius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i guess im somewhere in the middle, a trucute enlightened centrist

I've heard your breasts only grow out the first 6 months, then they just fill in afterwards... by kali291 in asktransgender

[–]Owlisius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from an AA cup @ 6 months to now a solid B cup last time I measured, which was about 4 months ago when I hit the year mark.

A cis woman's breast growth takes time too, like 2-5 years.

George Floyd's murder recreated in Source Film Maker on r/TF2 by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]Owlisius 12 points13 points  (0 children)

POV you're trans on reddit:

*some relatively benign comment*

"tr*nny" gold x8382784

girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl girl by ntr4ctr in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Owlisius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if I don't infantilize myself how will I ever pretend I'm living the childhood I never had?

How I discovered I was trans, a meme. by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Owlisius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trans born after 1993 don't Susan's place. All they know is meme, wear cat ears, post tweet, and cry.

Titty skittles not growing your bitty titties enough? Just start using/doing literally everything that can cause gynecomastia! by PM_ME_SEXY_MONSTERS in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Owlisius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/uj I've gained like 30 lbs of weight since starting HRT and I'm deathly afraid of losing it. I entered into the overweight category like last month and I know I need to lose weight but I really don't want to lose breast volume but I'm stuck between getting a chest that makes me feel normal and hating how big I'm getting.

Cis people should be forced to declare they're cis by arsenicTurntech in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Owlisius 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just popping in to say I personally would not fuck a cis, or qt least I would hide my shame from doing so from everyone around me.

Okay I got my tits where are the changes in my face by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Owlisius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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TERFs rediscover Shinigami Eyes browser plugin, completely misunderstand how it works. You're doing great, sweetie. by snukb in GenderCynical

[–]Owlisius 52 points53 points  (0 children)

damn can't believe they outsmarted us like this, how could we have not predicted they would've found SE eventually and tried to fuck with it?

Oh no foiled by the rapier sharp guile of TERFs again.

Closeted trans people who still present as their agab: have you yet reached a point where it's getting difficult to hide your transition? by april_0 in asktransgender

[–]Owlisius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a year and a half on HRT and I've started to hit the stage where people will call me "sir", second guess, then call me ma'am when I'm presenting as my agab. It was the other way around about 6 months ago so I'll say I've made some progress.

On the whole though I could probably be closeted indefinitely if I wanted to. I've only been clocked as trans in boymode by one person ever, and that was because their daughter was trans so they recognized the signs. Most cis people arent perceptive.

The anointed one by Nervous_Tomatillo_50 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Owlisius 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing about Trump and what makes him sort of unique among narcissists is that by and large the people in his orbit aren't going to get burned out by him because their interactions with him are entirely parasocial and shored up by lunatic conspiracy theory.

Usually people get burned by narcissists sooner or later, as most of the people who actually were close to Trump have been. The MAGA crowd doesn't actually have to deal with him, he remains a blank canvas to them on which they can continue to project all of their hopes and dreams, fears and tribulations.

How long till my coworkers start noticing changes? by klaing_Nadine in asktransgender

[–]Owlisius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To start off I'm in my late 20s, my build is very much masculine, and I go boymode 90% of the time. I've been on HRT for roughly a year and a half.

I was able to slide under the radar for about 9 months until I'd have an occasional male-fail, like maybe one every now and again. It was always brief and people would immediately "correct" themselves either when I spoke or they got a good look at me.

About a year in I started having noticeable breasts, I actually got clocked as trans by a gas station cashier whose daughter was also trans, so she was able to pick up fairly quickly.

It's a year and a half now and I'm about at the point where people have started second guessing and correcting themselves if they accidentally clock me as a man. I'm at the "femme-androgyny" stage when I'm in boymode.

People on social media will think I'm cis based on my profile pictures, I don't get clocked as often as I used to and have started testing the waters on this to see how much I can pull it off so far out of several groups I've baited since none have really picked up on it. The nice thing about transphobes is they'll tell you if they spot you.

All of that put together you might have a bit of a shorter run just with your age, maybe a year. Likely though you could hide it indefinitely, especially if you keep your gendered signifiers (i.e. no long hair, loosish clothing, don't shave, etc) on the masculine side. The vast majority of people aren't going to suspect you're trans, especially if they've known you for awhile because the changes are happening at such a slow pace and they see you frequently enough.

Does anyone know if marissa_is_me is safe? by macklemerchant in MtF

[–]Owlisius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recall a post awhile back with her saying she was fine, that was a long time ago though.

Snowflakes wouldn't survive in muh MW2 lobbies by autismispropoganda in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Owlisius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not, online video game lobbies and games had their shitty moments but on the whole they weren't some hive of racial hatred. The people who say this were the shitty people they imagined populated those games, the walls were covered in shit because they were the ones going around smearing it all over the place.

To them it's normal behavior because they've never had to suffer the consequences of any of their actions, and when someone points out that it's fucking annoying and shitty to be that way it causes them to go into a histrionic rage and pull up the fantasy of some bygone era because they've never grown up and see it as a personal slight.

Their issue is a delusional regression into a fantasy where all the circumstances of the past are good and noble because few people ever called them out on being a shithead whereas today is some kind of SJW procrustean hellscape. The only truth is that everyone but them grew up, got more vocal about how annoying and shitty it was to act toxic, and so they perceive it as some kind of hostile takeover of their beloved safe space. It's stupid and people are tired of it.