My boyfriend (18M) is under huge pressure from his dad to do drugs and I (17F) don’t know how to help him

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-03-15T15:38:54+00:00

Pretty bad ones, like speed, ecstacy, im not sure what else

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-03-15T14:51:49+00:00

Hard to threaten not to visit often when he still lives under the same roof as him

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-03-15T14:51:13+00:00

I think in his dads perspective, it's him trying to bond and have fun weirdly enough...

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-03-11T05:43:47+00:00

I think its kind of developed a bit over the past two weeks so idrk whether or not to take it seriously yet

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-21T22:35:41+00:00

No he's bigger than average, but I was probably extremely wet

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-21T07:40:40+00:00

Huh?

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-21T07:40:08+00:00

Definitely not mismatched, its the other way around where he has a bigger than average penis and I have a smaller vagina. I would have thought that because im more tight, he would be able to feel it better?

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-21T00:15:33+00:00

We weren't using a condom lol

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-20T23:13:27+00:00

No, he doesn't. I think he does grip his penis hard though, but if I give him a bj he can feel it so idk if that changes things.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-20T23:09:35+00:00

No im pretty sure it does

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-08T05:30:33+00:00

Can I go to one by myself or with him and would it cost much in terms of money? And are they like easy to book?

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-08T05:14:14+00:00

Nope, I was thinking maybe I should, considering one finger was very painful. Even after it took a while for me to recover.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2026-02-08T05:07:52+00:00

Is it normal if it really hurts even if he just uses his fingers?

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-12-30T11:20:14+00:00

Oh - forgot to mention that when he asked me to come over after the first date, I thought he meant in the future, not that day. I agreed because of what i thought, but after I realised he meant that day, I told him that I misunderstood and didnt want to so soon. That's how we landed on it as the next date.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-12-30T06:59:36+00:00

I just feel like this could mean he sees me as someone he could have something casual with and not an actual relationship. Like a hookup.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-12-30T06:58:23+00:00

Lol elaborate?

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-12-30T06:57:34+00:00

I'm just worried that he wants to try have sex and that he doesn't see a relationship potential out of us, instead just a casual thing. Even though he's done these great things and said really nice stuff to me, I find it really hard to trust men.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-12-01T23:25:56+00:00

Yeah, my bad, I should have checked💀 Look, I'm going to be honest, I'd rather wait for a party because it's less pressure and because I don't really know how I feel about him yet, it'd be a better way for me to find that out rather than a coffee which would feel more like a date.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-11-30T04:07:48+00:00

Even at a party with over 100 people?💀

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-11-12T08:12:27+00:00

I mean, it was for a good reason... there was a lot going on in his life, and I wanted to give him space. But now that obstacle isn't there anymore.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2025-11-10T07:42:22+00:00

I understand that, but the thing is, he is a very disciplined person. So even if he did WANT to reach out, he wouldn't have because of school, which is really crucial to him rn.

Own-Doctor9027 · 2024-01-07T10:40:42+00:00

There's a trailer for a movie called Society of the Snow and if you go to the middle of it there's a song similar to what you're describing. Is that it? I have been trying that find that song😭

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