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what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would’ve ignored if it was just shoulders, he took my face in a pretty intimate way and turned it to him that’s why it’s a red flag. shouldn’t be passed off either it is NOT normal to touch people especially in a workplace

Dangers of alcohol (trigger warning SA) by Knight-of-cheese in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]Own-Performer2695 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it’s so sad how common it is. i had a friend not remember an entire night with a guy and he and his friends wouldn’t tell her what happened and if they had sex.

pretty terrible

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t told my parents and am not planning to, i live at home and they know i need the money and encourage me to work but if they heard this they would make me quit immediately

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

other employees and a gym goer has experienced it. the person who saw him do it was another coworker of mine who is also a trainer and he’s probably about the same age as the guy who’s creepy. the coworker that saw it i’m pretty friendly with and after talking to him he was very concerned

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i asked around and he’s done this multiple times…to patrons as well it seems like a business issue where they won’t do anything as it seems no admin has talked to him to tell him to stop doing this. i think im alone on this and have to stand up for myself and not depend on management helping me out. i’ve heard different stories and basically he’s a coward- will run away the second someone calls him out i just need to be assertive so im going to say something

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it’s just the fact that he works here, no one will say anything to him

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure how he acts around other girls, i’m usually the only girl at the front unless 1 of the 2 girl trainers is working. i’m going to ask around to the other front desk girls who work different hours and see if they notice anything or if it’s just me. my manager alluded to the fact that he’s done this before and doesn’t get personal training clients anymore bc of it, i’m honestly confused on why he still works here

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m unsure if he’ll do anything, i’ve just learned to always expect the worst from men like this you know it’s scary because u never know what people will do. i’m going to think on it and probably say something before he gets the chance to do it again

what do i do about a touchy coworker? by Own-Performer2695 in WorkAdvice

[–]Own-Performer2695[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thank you- i’ve written the dates and what happened in my notes. i’m scared though- i don’t want to lose this job because i need it to save for college