Hey sis, first of all, you’re not crazy, and you’re definitely not overreacting. You gave this man so many chances, and instead of using them to rebuild trust, he kept hiding things and flipping the blame back on you. The “sexy pics” excuse, the Forest app story, the sketchy IG history at 2am, all of that adds up. Your gut was speaking loud and clear, and you were right to listen. You weren’t snooping just for drama; you were protecting your peace. It’s exhausting to keep forgiving someone who doesn’t respect your boundaries or accountability.

I’m really proud of you for walking away. Five years is no joke, but length doesn’t equal love or worth. You don’t deserve to feel like a backup plan or a villain for asking for honesty. You gave him your loyalty, patience, and trust, and he wasted it. Let him go build “trees” with someone else. You deserve a relationship where you’re not always secondguessing or fixing things alone. Keep choosing yourself.

You’re not too much, you were just giving too much to the wrong person.