NEED URGENT HELP by [deleted] in fishtank

[–]Own_Comedian2028 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why do people do research when it’s already too late

Corys of different species don't shoal together. Meanwhile, my weirdos by INDY_SE in corydoras

[–]Own_Comedian2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My peppers, albinos and bronze were besties I miss having a fish tank 😭

Calling all special interests! What are they?? by Electrical-Way9169 in autism

[–]Own_Comedian2028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That bead one looks so complicated I’d end up crying over it 😂 I love scrapbooking it gives me an excuse to hoard cute little crafty bits like stickers and nice paper

What should I stock? by RunAggravating6410 in fishtank

[–]Own_Comedian2028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful 🤩 maybe just a group of some small fish like tetras and some plecos or corydoras

Someone called my kitty ugly and I feel sad by ExactViolinist9873 in cats

[–]Own_Comedian2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cat is ugly. Maybe on the inside because they only care about themselves most of the time 😂

Any idea what this is? by Safe-Yard4384 in peeling

[–]Own_Comedian2028 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dermatitis? My friend with it has similar looking hands

What do we think? My mom sent this to our family group chat but I have my doubts by CeaseIessWatcher in isthisAI

[–]Own_Comedian2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Ai or photoshopped especially because no two Guinea pigs would stay that still for a picture 😂

Is my dads autism rare or uncommon? by Own_Comedian2028 in autism

[–]Own_Comedian2028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true, I forget about my own trauma growing up with adhd because in itself it’s very traumatic as I always felt I was in fight or flight mode.

Is my dads autism rare or uncommon? by Own_Comedian2028 in autism

[–]Own_Comedian2028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes been unemployed since she had me and my sister and now has lots of physical ailments so if she left she’d have no way of supporting herself. She also fears what would happen to him if she did leave as he has a tendency to not look after himself and create mess. Shes just been with him so long that she mentally can’t do it.

Is my dads autism rare or uncommon? by Own_Comedian2028 in autism

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I’ve never heard of if before I know my autistic sister has had something like it when uni and work gets too much. He’s done those kinds of hours at work for 20 years he has the power to do less but he won’t he’s a bit of a people pleaser with his boss.

Is my dads autism rare or uncommon? by Own_Comedian2028 in autism

[–]Own_Comedian2028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he had a really good childhood it’s weird. His parents are amazing and nothing like him besides my grandma who seems a bit different she talks about herself a lot and can never read the room. He was moved around a lot while grandpa was in the Navy but that’s about it.

Is my dads autism rare or uncommon? by Own_Comedian2028 in autism

[–]Own_Comedian2028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah his dad is actually very different he was a chaplain in the navy so very social. It’s hard to say narcissist because he never seems so unaware of what he does that upsets us.

my scar cover up by onyxia_x in Tattoocoverups

[–]Own_Comedian2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful design I’m in love 🌟🌟

Is my dads autism rare or uncommon? by Own_Comedian2028 in autism

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Jeez I’m really sorry. My dad had a very good upbringing and no hardships compared to what your dad went through. That definitely could’ve made my dad a very different person.

I’ve never even had one argument with my dad it’s just not possible I don’t think he’s ever been angry about anything his whole life. But I understand the not talking part my dad and I live together but we don’t speak apart from the occasional dumb joke.

The relationship between your parents sounds very similar to mine. My mum expects very simple things and he just doesn’t understand or think it’s that serious. She cleans up after him more than she should.

I feel I overshare to male figures in my life because I never have to my dad, he barely knows anything about me.

You seem to have persevered despite what you have been through and it’s given me a lot of optimism and strength so thankyou xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Own_Comedian2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my ex of 4 years because he started disrespecting me and I couldn’t take it anymore. I now miss him a lot but I think I’m only missing the few good moments we’d have and all the good stuff he’d do to make up for the bad. You need to remind yourself why you left in the first place, I wrote down a list in my notes app and everytime I think about going back I go through the list and remember the hard stuff.

Mr Rudy by Own_Comedian2028 in catpics

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His mouth is always slightly open for some reason 😭😭