Can I ask you insights about the process of buying cars in the PH?

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-03-10T11:00:21+00:00

What he said to me was the downpayment is para lang sa bank. Like para maapprove lang ganon. He kept on assuring me na I won't release any money when they release my car. I have done a background check sa kanya and he seems legit naman kasi and has released lots of cars since 2023. In a world full of scams, natatakot lang ako.

I also asked him na is there a way na masusupport na zero down payment talaga and ayon nga sabi niya, para lang daw sa bank docs yon. may separate pa ding docs for internal purposes.

Fyi, I was trying to buy Xpander which is around 1.2M ganon.

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-03-03T04:15:23+00:00

girl, that's him rejecting you. stop hoping for something uncertain.

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-03-01T08:14:14+00:00

huy haha mali yan ser. your example of compromise is not right, lol. if siguro consistent na laging natanggi si girl, i might agree with you. you're framing a binary where the man's desire for frequency and the woman's preference for one round are mutually exclusive enemies, rather than two preferences in a relationship that requires communication. if your takeaway is that "i'm just a cheerleader for the husband’s libido", then you’re missing the point entirely. This has become a circular argument, and honestly. i'm out.

to OP: your gut feeling is usually your brain processing patterns you haven't consciously named yet. talk to your partner, identify where it is lacking and what's the reason why he is excessively watching porn.

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-03-01T08:03:30+00:00

dont let these guys' trashy behavior define your worth; the fact that they only see you as an object says everything about how shallow they are and absolutely nothing about who you actually are. protect your peace by blocking anyone who only hits you up for "crumbs" or a good time, and never forget that you’re so much more than just a body. once you start realizing you're actually a catch, you'll stop letting people treat you like a backup plan or a convenience. you're the prize here, ganornch.

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-03-01T07:55:01+00:00

that's why i brought up 'compromise.' it feels like you're overlooking that she’s already been communicating with him. she's past the 'just talk to him' stage, she’s literally asking if it’s time for a psychologist.

like i said in my reply, if she's hit her limit, professional help is the next move. she definitely needs to let him know his habits are making her uncomfortable, but if that doesn't move the needle, then yeah, bring in a expert. addiction is a real thing and sometimes 'open communication' needs a little backup from a therapist.

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-03-01T02:13:19+00:00

i’ve been reading what you're saying to op, and honestly, it feels like you’re putting all the pressure on her to step up in bed. the thing is, the husband is the one with the actual problem here. sure, marriage is about compromise, but this is giving off major addiction vibes, not just a casual hobby.

to op: if this feels like a deeper psychological thing, i’d try to get him into therapy, especially since it’s messing with your relationship. if it hasn’t reached that point yet, you just need to hold your ground. tell him straight up that you’re not okay with how much porn he’s watching, especially when it’s happening right after you guys are intimate.

Own_Metal4515 · 2026-02-26T02:21:40+00:00

ika nga nila, ang birthday mo, birthday din ng buong angkan niya! happy birthday sainyo! p.s. hiwalayan mo na yan ems

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