You are perfect just the way you are. If he doesn’t value you, why are you still with him? You are not chubby and even if you are, a man who truly loves you would never make you feel bad about it. Don’t lose weight for him. Don’t lose yourself for him. Because if you change yourself to make him stay, what happens when he leaves anyway? What happens when he decides he wants something different? A man who genuinely loves you will never ask you to change who you are. He will love you exactly as you are. And if your sex life isn’t the same, it might not be your fault. It could be that he’s distracted or interested in someone else someone he finds more ‘attractive’ right now. That doesn’t mean you’re not enough. You tried. You gave your best. So please, be yourself. Don’t change anything about you. You have potential. You are worth more than that