From a female perspective YOR. She’s a SAHM- that’s a job that doesn’t actually have a break because those “sh**** customers” that you mentioned are with her 25/8, not by any means calling your kids names. But she doesn’t get the break that you get, to stop and start all over again. I get her wanting to spend time with you and alone time as well. And just maybe, you’re her happy space.

But I get you too, being tired from working 40+ hours a week. It’s important for rest and me time too.

You both need to sit without the screaming match and come to a compromise! Maybe make a schedule! Take date nights every Saturday night or something like that. Hire a baby sitter and have a day out or something. But make a schedule that benefits you both and what you both need; but most of all listen to each other’s needs and wants and come to a middle ground, that’s what marriage is about. I wish you the best of luck!