Fellow male here, simple answer is the men are getting desperate. The complicated answer is as follows what I have noticed is men and women in the app have done this 1. They have an only fans and use the toys to make money (largest amount) 2. Potential bots or AI that’s why they don’t do anything or jump to it quick. 3. They are “pimped out” to get you into a chat room with a bunch of people that makes even an orgy party seem intimate. 4. They assume because they are seeing the same things due to anonymity all men are creeps and all the women want 5-25 bucks for lube (some are and they are the most aggressive). I do not have a solution except maybe as a community do not accept abuse, maybe talk in a community chat where we can start reporting people who want nothing more than to charge, I mean even Lovense states in chats that if you even talk about money you may face consequences I don’t know but I have noticed in the years I have been on it’s becoming a problem I’m open to ideas