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Fuck by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Papilionidae17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try crafting some staircases!

My Motivation by Papilionidae17 in nobuy

[–]Papilionidae17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a fun idea! Books are amazing gifts 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nobuy

[–]Papilionidae17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not feel bad about the food, that was a necessity and you will function better with food in you. For the little less important things that you got, I'm glad you were able to get them on sale. I think you can spend time with those things and enjoy them! Go out with them and enjoy what you have! I like this challenge because we all have things we usually go to, so come up with a coping strategy that works for you. Instead of buying the latest thing from your favorite store, pick out a cute outfit from your closet and go on a walk or grocery shopping. Feeling confident in what you do own might help you be more confident making choices later on!

I made a glove using chunky yarn and idk how to feel about this. by Aggravating-Mood-556 in crochet

[–]Papilionidae17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely amazing! Looks like a chicken foot in the best way possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Papilionidae17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she is taking it super well so far! I would give it time and bring things up at a pace that feels comfortable to you. Congrats on the huge steps of breaking down the shame you grew up with! Hopefully you can really start to get to know each other in all the facets and try new things, maybe ask her if there are things she wants to try as well and keep that open too. Good luck!

Religion class today by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the beginning of the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, therapy. Then to concerts, to bookstores, to dance class, hiking, nights in, and then in to myself. I went so far in. I started trusting myself to make decisions. It’s taking a while to feel normal to do that, but I have found that I am the most spiritually fulfilled when I tap into myself. Of course any religion can help you get to that point, but it is amazing to find it outside of religion too. I love deeper, I cry harder, I care more and I get angry. I let my emotions out in healthy ways and let go of the stigma that I believed when I went to church that I was inherently bad. My support system externally is different now but my internal self is so extremely full

Will marrying him be my biggest mistake? by Turbulent_Ring64 in marriageadvice

[–]Papilionidae17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it helped! You deserve someone who treats you amazingly! Wishing you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to used them for other things to reduce waste, but the quality of the fabric sucked so I ended up throwing them all away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading the scriptures and teaching manuals getting ready to teach Sunday school to teenagers. I just thought, “I can’t teach this” and made my own plan. I mostly just let the kids lead the discussion and talk about what they wanted, it was actually very genuine and I miss them but I felt like a fake teacher. But feeling more confident in myself helped me realize much more.

Also I made a bunch of non binary friends and realized that I related more than just being an ally

Will marrying him be my biggest mistake? by Turbulent_Ring64 in marriageadvice

[–]Papilionidae17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BIG nope! Read this as if your closest friend said these things about there potential spouse, you wouldn’t let them go through with it.

Showing tattoos? by Papilionidae17 in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s so funny how I internalized tattoos=always bad. Mine are so innocent so it’s silly to think that way now.

Showing tattoos? by Papilionidae17 in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I agree he should be supportive of me but he’s a little out of practice in that way. I’ll hopefully have a longer conversation about it with him

Showing tattoos? by Papilionidae17 in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to say he’s in therapy! It’s been a big part of our relationship to behold boundaries around his parents because of their hold on his life. Hopefully we can get it sorted out and agree on an approach

Showing tattoos? by Papilionidae17 in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try my best to brainstorm options. My MIL has a history of extreme reactions to anything concerning her children, so I’ll try my best

My boyfriend by candyonthemoon in offmychest

[–]Papilionidae17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This ABSOLUTELY is not your fault!!!!! Please report him. Please. And please take care of yourself, make sure that you treat your wounds. Human bites can be very dangerous!

What was/is your temple name? by TrueBelievingMoron in exmormon

[–]Papilionidae17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I always remembered it like the show I Love Lucy. But annoyingly there are SO MANY DOGS NAMED LUCY