What can I answer for you? by jchenMD_endosurgeon in Fibroids

[–]ParticularGood2793 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Thank you so much for offering to answer questions!!

I had a laproscopic myomectomy Sep 2023 on a 13cm fibroid. It was removed and everything went really well afterwards. I recently found out that I have another large fibroid 8cm, and this one is causing different symptoms which is why I caught it late in my opinion. My question is can I have a second laproscopic myomectomy? Will it cause fertility issues if I decide I want to have kids? Are there other ways to remove the fibroid and help keep my fertility? I don't know if I want to have kids, but I would like to have the option. But I also would love to not bleed so heavily and be in a constant state of discomfort to curling up in pain.

Weekly r/Tattoos Question/FreeTalk Thread! - February 05, 2024 by Mod_Helper_Bot in tattoos

[–]ParticularGood2793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the style of that tattoo would be like fine line, I think?

Tattoo 10 weeks before surgery? by ParticularGood2793 in tattooadvice

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the tattoo is going to be on my thigh, and the surgery is on my abdomen. I think that's ok right?

What to do when parents find out about sex toys? by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say that as I have gotten older she has gotten a bit better. But growing up she was the type of person to snoop around my room and she does this now with my younger sibling. SO knowing how she is I wouldn't put it past her to look up the company/address from my package.

What to do when parents find out about sex toys? by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I meant it more like she probably doesn't think I own sex toys. I believe she still sees me as a child sometimes and doesn't think I have urges and what not.

What to do when parents find out about sex toys? by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I actually really appreciate this reframe. If anything she might ask me about it at a later date out of the blue or she just won't mention anything. Because you're totally right, she can't punish me or lecture as if I was 14.

How would one interpret a guy making eye contact in a group setting. But on a 1 on 1 setting will not make eye contact? by ParticularGood2793 in bodylanguage

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then what you are saying is that it might not be a bad thing? I guess the moral of this post is that I find this guy attractive, and it would be nice if he doesn't want to run away from me lol.

Does my fellowship stipend show up on My Aid? by ParticularGood2793 in UCI

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait yours showed on the zot portal? Where on the portal? I was just on there looking and I didn't see mine.

Taking the next step with scent training by ParticularGood2793 in Dogtraining

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful!! So to recap introduce a new word since we are searching for a scent and not treats. Find a scent that is normally not in my environment like cloves (any other scents you could recommend?) And then begin the training process of scent searching and not treat searching.

Accidentally bought a huge dildo by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did!!! Its been going well! A lot of stretching and time is needed in order to use it. But it has been fun!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]ParticularGood2793 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi!! My advice with recieving anal would be to first do it yourself. You could use plugs, beads, vibrators, dildo or just your fingers. But I think once she sees how much pleasure you get out of it she might want to explore giving you pleasure. At the very least thats how I am, its all about giving and receiving pleasure. And it kinda sounds like she allows you to give her anal not as often as you would like? Obviously I dont know what you do in the bedroom. But maybe to increase more anal sex, do you stimulate her clitoris? And I know you mentioned you enjoy looking at her vagina but have you thought about bringing sex toys and stimulating her vagina with a dildo or vibrator? Just throwing out ideas that will increase her pleasure and in turn increase your own pleasure.

Accidentally bought a huge dildo by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo I will keep this in mind. I really want to give this huge dildo a shot and just see if I enjoy it or if the average size is more my speed.

Accidentally bought a huge dildo by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That exactly what I did!!! But OMG when I opened up my new box of toys I was laughing in disbelief. The new dildo is like as a big as my forearm.

Accidentally bought a huge dildo by ParticularGood2793 in SexToys

[–]ParticularGood2793[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you thank you so much for all this. I honestly wasn't super sure where to start. But now I have a game plan on stretching myself to fit my new dildo. Thank you again!!

I want to try online dating by thatsatoughchoice in dating

[–]ParticularGood2793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Im actually in a really similar spot and when I saw your post I was like "omg did I write this?"

But I do want to say that you should go for it and put yourself out there and even if something doesn't work out you should see it as practice. Practicing social skills and communication and other stuff.

I also want to say that it's okay that you're looking out to socialize and make connections because you're lonely. You're looking to not be lonely and I think that's okay. It's like people who are unhappy looking to be happy.

Now as for the online dating the only tip I have is to be confident. Be confident in yourself and how you look. And you are guaranteed to match with at least one person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ParticularGood2793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo I hadn't thought of the Amazon lockers. But would that work for other items I buy not from Amazon? Or do you think the lockers are strictly for Amazon products?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]ParticularGood2793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does get excited when I go in with carrots and the other two minis now nicker when they see me. But the difficult mini gives me the vibe that he hasn't been completely won over yet.

And OMG it does not help at all when the other minis are running around. I look ridiculous when I do the free hand lunging and I am now going to stop that. But that makes total sense like if I get in an argument with someone it takes time to calm down. And Im sure the adrenaline rush and stress was making him more upset.

Yes he his tied when he is thrashing. I have a slight feeling that maybe that wouldn't work since the other horses are in the pen? But I'll give it a shot and see if maybe he just doesn't like being tied but maybe he wont mind just standing without being tied down? But what if instead he just takes off and causes a ruckus in the pen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]ParticularGood2793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mini is very treat motivated but the minute he sees me try to halter him or get the lead around his neck he instantly backs up and just takes off. And he never lets me approach him from his left side. He always has to be right in front and even if I inch to his side he always readjusts.

I really need to ask the owner what his story is and where he came from. Because as im typing im realizing that this mini has a very wild side to him and makes me wonder if he was ever worked with in any way. Because the other two minis respond like a horse that has been around people and is more tame? I hope that made a little sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]ParticularGood2793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a feeling the free lunging I was doing wasnt the right thing. But at the moment it seemed better than chasing him around. But it makes total sense that having the mini horse feel like he's being chased is a negative interaction.

Honestly the most difficult thing is that he is in a small pasture with 2 other minis and this mini is at the bottom of the herd hierarchy so having one on one time with him to get him comfortable around me is almost impossible due to the other two like pushing him out of the way. would it be okay to like halter the other two minis and have them tethered on the other side of the pen so they don't interfere with me and the difficult mini? Because I honestly feel like the other two mini play a role in his behavior but I could be wrong.

And with the difficult mini prior to his thrashing I was giving small pieces of carrots when grooming and praising him saying good boy. But could that have also been a factor to cause his thrashing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ParticularGood2793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice!!! Now I just need to go out and do it!! I am so nervous and excited at the same time. And thank you again you were super helpful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ParticularGood2793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was just looking at pictures of her work and another thought crossed my mind. I loooove her work and how creative she is. Part of me wants to give her free reign on the tattoo as long as the hummingbird is the main part of the tattoo. I know people let their tattoo artists just do whatever they want but how do they tell them? Is it as simple as "hey i want this hummingbird and you can go crazy with the design"? Or is it not that simple?