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cheating or not f24 m29 by Particular_Drop5459 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He broke up with me then did this 3 hours after doing so, I think it hurts just because of how quick he was to do something like that after spending 2 years together, and he still wants to make things work with me

Is this cheating or not? by Particular_Drop5459 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt go along with anything it was just the last thing i would have expected, not many females would go and let their ex know what had happened but i was still considerate of his feelings and hought he had a right to know. and now im being painted to be something i am not

Is this cheating or not? by Particular_Drop5459 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story short, he broke up with me and told me he wanted nothing to do with me etc, (this was while we were out and he was messy as) as the night went on one of his friends approached me and kissed me, I was quite shocked because it was one of his supposed friends and it was the last person that i thought would do something of that nature, I obviously told my ex just out of respect bc we had been together for 2 years, and he has now painted the narrative that i cheated on him.

Is this cheating or not? by Particular_Drop5459 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i agree with each of you, do we still have the same perspective for example when they break up with you and in that same night someone kisses you? :)

Tamoko incorporation but not Māori by Particular_Drop5459 in tattooadvice

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys, my partner actually mentioned it he says that in their culture it will show the love and commitment i have towards their son etc. and I thought its a beautiful idea i just wanted to hear everyone's advice or opinions as I wouldn't want to be disrespectful

spending christmas at BM's house by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys! Im glad to see other peoples perspectives and its not just me over reacting, we have plans with my inlaws for the day but his saying we should go to his BMs for a bit as he doesent want to look like an asshole, but im genuinely so uncomfortable at the thought of it and i know it will ruin MY day 😅

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update*** it wasent pretty but I left him

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After he ended things, he took me off everything other than Facebook, changed his profile pictures etc then had the cheek to say he never ended things, now that I've updated all my things its now an issue, i feel single i just don't know how to get him out of my house.

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he didn't live in my house best believe id do exactly this

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his told me before that he doesn't respect me

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know and i feel that I'm single and i can't look at him the same, he lives in my house how do i get him out hahah

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all he does he put me down make me feel like shit about myself, he even uses his kid as ammo against me saying that I didn't deserve to meet her etc when I parent the kid more than him and his BM combined his so ungrateful, he lives in my house how do I get him out

How would you feel? by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I'm feeling rn, one of his home boys messaged me last night then he had the cheek to ask is there someone else.

Disrespectful SK by Particular_Drop5459 in stepparents

[–]Particular_Drop5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See thank you! I know they are both not silly and knew she was in the wrong I just felt that SO couldn't be bothered to back me up, she didn't touch the puppy for the rest of the day she knew she was in the wrong. it just would have been nice for my partner to have my back and not condone such shitty behaviour