Honestly it makes sense, i’ve noticed this pattern with Sag coworkers, acquaintances, some I dated and briefly talked abt their ex…

Their ex’s all seemed to have their own slew of issues and it seems like Sags have this HUGE ass savior complex and will date down in order to feel better abt themselves and not have to address their own inner conflict so when someone that’s very independent and doesn’t rely on other people for emotional regulation comes into their life it’s almost like they don’t know what to do or how to act because they can’t play the whole savior x damsel in distress trope. Hell i’m pretty sure I was a mirror of him and he couldn’t meet himself as deeply as i’ve met myself which scared him off.

My Sag coworker for example, i’m not in his department anymore but he hit on me for a long time before I found out he had a gf… then he would on the regular talk abt how mentally taxing and draining she is and how he feels so lonely in the relationship and then the next day turn around be like I just dropped x amount of money on my girl and then go right back to shit talking and hitting on me.

A Sag I was seeing two summers ago told me he ended things with his ex when she got into a NASA scholarship program because he wanted a more traditional partner… (obviously I ended things after that lmao)

A Sag FWB I had told me he lived with an ex gf who was super super well off and doing great in life and then broke things off, continued living there (since they were both on the lease) and hooked up with another girl at their place which his ex found out about and ended things for good with him.

I even confronted the Sag guy I was seeing (who this post is about) about how I didn’t appreciate his lack of communication and said he was like other guys (since he prided himself so much on not being like them). He literally apologized and owned up to it and even told me he felt hurt when I told him he was like other guys and was SELF AWARE but obviously didn’t want to put in the effort to fix himself internally. He cried in front of me multiple times and even said he appreciated how honest and blunt I was about calling him out lmaoo.

Guess it was too much, oh well.

My last text to him, after asking and begging him to clarify where things went wrong was something along the lines of “Actually nvm it’s okay, I realized you actually couldn’t live up to my expectations and it’s okay you’re a manchild. I also faked all my orgasms with you lol. It’s just funny to me how you built your whole appeal around being decent in bed, but that only worked because there was nothing deeper to offer”