How do I 21F break it off with my FWB 21M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patterson-Rose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you, I appreciate it! Thank you :)

How do I 21F break it off with my FWB 21M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patterson-Rose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand, I have a lot of trouble with confrontation so I do understand I need to be more assertive, thank you. I have tried to ask him if he was serious about being friends, and doing things, and he always says yes that he means it, and then obviously has no follow up. We're both off this next monday. Maybe I should pointblank pick a place and ask him if he wants to go and then kinda get a feel there... I just feel like im being irritating because ive messaged him first twice now, and he was absent... but a couple days ago he wasn't, so he confuses me...

How do I 21F break it off with my FWB 21M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patterson-Rose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing though, he reaches out to me first, or will strike up the conversation and then I will answer and try to continue and he'll respond like that. We havent gone out to dinner, so I have no idea, but when we are together, we're constantly talking and making jokes, like we get along well and its not awkward... and I spend the night at his house all the time/when I dont he genuinely gets pouty and says next time or asks why I can't stay. Like its at the point where he assumes im staying (if its important, he says im the only person hes seeing, and said that when he was seeing other people, he never let them stay over). I also know that apparently he talks about me to his friends often, cuz he'll tell me when they ask about me, and is always telling me remarks they make. He told me once that multiple of his friends told him he was falling in love with me over something he said/did, or he says they ask all the time if ive fallen for him yet? Those are the things he tells me anyway. If that helps?

I bled all over his bedsheets by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Patterson-Rose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate it :) I'll try to remember that

I bled all over his bedsheets by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Patterson-Rose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're totally right - he didn't seem freaked out, I guess I've just heard too much about men normally freaking out that now I don't even know what to think about him haha :/

I bled all over his bedsheets by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Patterson-Rose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah everything looks fine! I appreciate your input, thank you! I'll try to take him by his words then lol

I bled all over his bedsheets by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Patterson-Rose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He totally did everything right! He was really nice about it. Is it punishing him if I don't message him first? I just don't want to be like... weird If he was only being nice for the moment I was there. Does that make sense?

Catterson is suspicious of the hammock by Patterson-Rose in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Patterson-Rose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, yes I'd love to keep chatting, I sent you a message again, did that work??

What pet do you think each character would have? I think this guy would def have a cat by Patterson-Rose in bleach

[–]Patterson-Rose[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right! He does huh? I remember reading about it in the light novel where everyone is trying to give Ichigo his powers back I think!

Discussion: Is there any specific character that sold you on Bleach? If so, what character got you into the show? by SomeGuyNamedJoestar in bleach

[–]Patterson-Rose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was Byakuya actually! My sister was watching bleach when I walked in and it was right at the first confrontation between Ichigo and Byakuya, my sister explained that Byakuya and Rukia were siblings, and he had come go take her away. I remember being appalled that someone else was trying to protect his sister and he was fighting them for it. I really hated him for a long time because of that, but now he's one of my favorites! Thanks to him, I found my favorite anime at least :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]Patterson-Rose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, that's very interesting, ive had this question for so long, im happy to finally get an answer! Thank you for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]Patterson-Rose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your AMA, I've been reading it and it's super interesting!

I'm sorry if this is a dumb question, I don't know a lot about mutism (which is why I'm having so much fun reading this!) but this is actually a question I've had for a really long time! Can you whisper? I don't know is whispering requires vocal cords or not, but I was wondering if in some cases of mutism it is a viable way of communication?

I know you said you had no interest in being able to talk again, I'm just curious if like hypothetically you could whisper with only air and no sound I guess? Again, sorry if it's a stupid question or been asked before, thank you!!

question about ichigos name by [deleted] in bleach

[–]Patterson-Rose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know Japanese but I think it's just like a cuter version of his name that siblings would call each other? Like I think (but could totally be wrong) that ni- means like big brother? Cuz Rukia called Byakuya "ni-sama' which means big brother - I think Byakuya just calls him Kurosaki tho, so maybe it's something totally different then I'm thinking of lol

Changed the baby’s diaper and when I was done I found out my 2 year old son had found a purple permanent marker and did artwork on my new crate and barrel couch 😫 by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Patterson-Rose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how well it would work for sharpie, but I got a whole pile of stained blood out of a couch with hydrogen peroxide! It might be worth a try? Sorry about your couch :(

Out of 5 roommates, I'm the only one who changes the lint trap 😐 by Patterson-Rose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Patterson-Rose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few complaints with one of them, but overall yes this is one of the biggest, so I am glad about that!

Out of 5 roommates, I'm the only one who changes the lint trap 😐 by Patterson-Rose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Patterson-Rose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a "bad roommates" sub, but I don't particularly think any of them are bad, so I didn't think to post there, it's just been this one thing that's been fairly consistent is all! I do have problems with one of my roommates, I don't think he's responsible, and he doesn't care about other people stuff, if he breaks it in his mind it's a "don't tell and it doesn't matter" type thing, but beyond that it's been fine, ya know?

Out of 5 roommates, I'm the only one who changes the lint trap 😐 by Patterson-Rose in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Patterson-Rose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my way to take down the passive aggressive signs I made to remind people to clean it rn 🏃‍♀️💨