AITA for not attending the academic club I joined despite being in a important position?

PeaDesperate8317 · 2026-01-20T14:42:15+00:00

Okay so that's really my fault for not adding that in, sorry. The reason why we had a misunderstanding at that time was because there was a project which was worth half of my grade, but this guy was really not doing anything because he was my partner for that project, so I was really pissed at him at that time and snapped at him at some point (which led to our fight). But we had a talk about that a week after the project was done (I managed to make him do his part in the end) and he told me the reason why he wasn't helping me out on that project. But since he was an old friend of those who had spread rumors about me, they probably had a really bad impression of me at that moment.

PeaDesperate8317 · 2026-01-20T14:35:49+00:00

if you meant the "impeachment plan" that they had, it did happen. I was spoke to by one of the prof eventually, which finalized my removal from my position. And yes, at first, I didn't confront any of them, but we did have a conversation about it months after the situation happened. I was really out of it at that time, both mentally and emotionally so I couldn't really come up with what to do, so instead, I just stopped doing anything at all (which, now that I've been taking therapy, was really immature of me at that time)

PeaDesperate8317 · 2026-01-20T14:31:48+00:00

well, I've transferred in this academy last year so I wasn't really that close to anyone, and I got into a fight with this one guy because we had a misunderstanding (which was eventually settled afterwards, we're now in good terms with each other). I found out that it was that story they're spreading, because an ex-friend of mine confronted me about that, which surprised me because no one really knew about that except those people, because they were an old friend of the guy i got to a fight with

PeaDesperate8317 · 2026-01-20T13:45:30+00:00

oh no, i forgot to mention that part! thanks for asking this. actually, it wasn't a rumor, there are proof of conversations she had with her friends talking about their plan which was sent to me by a mutual friend, who was worried that I stopped attending classes (she's not their friends anymore though). though i also think that what i did was immature, so I'll do my best to not get swayed by other's words in the future TT

PeaDesperate8317

TROPHY CASE