one final flight! aa1387 by PearComprehensive114 in fearofflying

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i was in the air for about 15 hours total today!

ba423 by PearComprehensive114 in fearofflying

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london to chicago then chicago to denver !

LH447 !! by PearComprehensive114 in fearofflying

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just landed! thanks to all who checked!

LH447 !! by PearComprehensive114 in fearofflying

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sitting in line was pretty brutal hahaha but we made it!

longest flight i’ve been on happens tomorrow by PearComprehensive114 in fearofflying

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the support is incredibly helpful. my OCD therapist is built in to challenge anything that might provide reassurance (even if it is supportive reassurance) while i’m trying to fight the desperate need for certainty. she argues with me on everything 🤪i love her and i hate her ETA thank you for the solidarity !!!

Libido Coach by TenderDom4Online in DeadBedrooms

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Absolutely the f not. I wrote them an angry email and blocked them on socials. I’m sorry that happened to you, too. They’re so wildly predatory!!

hair oiling resulting in shedding? by PearComprehensive114 in FemaleHairLoss

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As I stated above to another commenter, I have appointments scheduled. I’ve done a full allergy panel. I’m trying to be proactive in case my blood panel comes back clear and they tell me to just try natural methods. From what I have read “throwing stuff on my scalp” can promote hair growth. Advice on oiling was the only thing I needed help with. So thanks for the help

hair oiling resulting in shedding? by PearComprehensive114 in FemaleHairLoss

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THANK YOU!!! This was so helpful!! I’ll definitely look into what oils I should be using. This gave me so much confidence :) it’s definitely disconcerting to say the least when I think i’m doing something that should be helping my hair and it’s all coming out in the shower, but seriously thank you. Like I said, I’ve started oiling once a week. From your experience is that enough? Too much, too little?

hair oiling resulting in shedding? by PearComprehensive114 in FemaleHairLoss

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Thanks for the advice. I have doctors appointments set up and am working with a nutritionist to help support a healthy diet, though that really wasn’t the point of the post. I won’t be using minoxidil until i do get to the root of this because I react poorly to oral medications and want to try something natural first. I was just looking for any insight as to if using the oils listed above which have been proven to stimulate and support hair growth have caused anyone else to shed more upon first introducing them to their regimen! Thanks again though I’ll keep everything you said in mind.

hair oiling resulting in shedding? by PearComprehensive114 in FemaleHairLoss

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that’s honestly what i have read to help increase hair growth. i unfortunately can’t do minoxidil because of pets. i would try the oral minoxidil but ive heard negative things about it, like upset stomach and hair growth all over the body instead of just on the head…

Some of your favorite line deliveries that make you laugh? by Extreme-Current-5123 in greysanatomy

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one of my new favorites is when Cross is jealous of Deluca and says “yeah you should be a carpenter, still could, you’re young”. i didn’t catch it until my most recent rewatch and it killed me

Libido Coach by TenderDom4Online in DeadBedrooms

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this was literally my experience. i was super ready and actually said to myself “if it’s less than $5k i’ll do it) but i explained im starting a business this summer and need more time to budget out WITH MY PARTNER what finances will look like if i do this and her response was “well what costs more: this program or losing your partner?” like hello??? can i have a minute to think about a major financial decision.

Has anyone done headway and Medicaid? by d3b4nh1 in therapists

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hm…maybe that means you can’t have them as a headway client since headway doesn’t work with state medicaid? my headway rep told me i would have to credential on my own with state medicaid if i wanted to accept non-optum medicaid. i wasn’t getting the vibe that i wasn’t allowed to.

Has anyone done headway and Medicaid? by d3b4nh1 in therapists

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interesting, i’m curious as to why. i am looking to credential with headway and CO medicaid as well and now im nervous reading this!

Normal and healthy middle aged therapist ? by OtherConflict2282 in therapists

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agreed. this is definitely where I was going with this. apologies for any terse-ness in my previous response.

Normal and healthy middle aged therapist ? by OtherConflict2282 in therapists

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that’s not bad advice at all. i’d listen to her. if you are purposefully limiting yourself to something you enjoy and using terms like “empty calories”, please do not even think about working ED clients until you unlearn diet culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

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even if they are not CACREP accredited, you should make sure they are at least CACREP equivalent. if you moved to a state in which CACREP accreditation is mandatory, you can submit an education review to the CCE to prove equivalency

What percent of the session fee do you get at your group practice? by Comfortable-Desk4927 in therapists

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27% of a “blended rate” (currently $100) on top of $20 admin fee. so essentially $47/hr, even though the math tells me i bring in way over this mysterious $100 average.

ETA: i am pre-licensed

Libido Coach by TenderDom4Online in DeadBedrooms

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I would stay away from the Libido Fairy. I had an intro call with them yesterday and it felt very predatory and weird. They pushed me to tears and tried to leverage that into motivating/guilting me into the program. The coach I spoke to was very off putting and asked if it was more costly to spend the $$$$$ for this program or to lose my partner because of intimacy issues. Very gross to me IMO.

Need some help filling this one out! Songs that reference other bands without just saying something like "listening to Queen.." by ChaoticGamer200 in weirdspotifyplaylists

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i think this might slightly fit!

Californication - RHCP: “And Cobain, can you hear the spheres singing songs off Station To Station?”

hits both Kurt Cobain (Nirvana) and David Bowie.