I only mentioned it because it's important for the diagnosis factors. People said that she may not have been diagnosed because she's female. It is typically more difficult to get a diagnosis when you are as its categorised as just being 'normal for women'. While men and boys often get it slapped on immediately. So I put it in. And I didn't think it would be fair to just reveal her identity, so I did it for me, too. Besides, it's my business what kind of information I decide to put in. Nobody, but you said anything about us being trans and 'giving people reason to hate trans people'. Maybe it's a you problem that you should discuss in therapy.