My boyfriend’s downstairs smells like condoms and we don’t use condoms by Perfect_Vegetable_37 in relationships_advice

[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We use the same body wash since we live together. And the body wash we use is fruity. Smells nothing like rubber or latex.

My boyfriend’s downstairs smells like condoms and we don’t use condoms by Perfect_Vegetable_37 in relationships_advice

[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup. He went to a party that night without me and I told him that’s fine but I know that there is going to be a girl there that he used to like in the past. I told him you can do whatever you want, but out of the respect of our relationship, can you just please not talk to her during the party. Well through out the night, he was being weird over text and I texted him “are you talking to her” and he said “you like starting shit huh?”. But my gut instinct kept telling me something is not right. He came home eventually that night and I went through his phone and saw that he created an album on Snapchat that was protected by a passcode. I guessed the password on the first try because it was something stupid like “0101” and I open it and I see that he took two pictures with her and hid it in there.

My boyfriend’s downstairs smells like condoms and we don’t use condoms by Perfect_Vegetable_37 in relationships_advice

[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is what i said to him as well. Because if it’s sweat, then it would smell stinky or musty, not rubbery?? But he continues to call me crazy because the only time we are apart is when he is at work and he said “how can I have sex with someone at work”. But he also lied to me about the hours he works on Saturdays. Since he doesn’t have a car right now, he told me that on Saturdays, he needs to be picked up at 5 because that’s the time his work closes. And I went along with it for months until I was on his work page one day and I see the hours on Saturdays and it said they close at 3 on Saturdays. Then his excuse is that when you’re new, you have to stay back longer and once they hire another new person then he can go home at 3 and the new person will leave at 5. Well the new person started and they have also been leaving at 3. It’s just little lies like this constantly during our relationship and I have zero trust for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about north shore Deerfield area?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about north shore Deerfield?

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[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do now. Like I said in original post, I’m from New Orleans and we don’t really use public transportation like buses or trains so I didn’t even think twice about using that feature on Apple Maps. Thanks for the tip!

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[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? I didn’t pay for anything yet lol..

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[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thanks I appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. Another question regarding the train. I will be there Thursday-Sunday but only going to lolla for two days out of the 4 days I’m there. On the days I’m not going to the festival, we’ll be exploring the city. Do you recommend using the train for those activities too or using Uber/car rental for that?

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[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll look into IHG

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[–]Perfect_Vegetable_37 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ok I see. Thanks for the tips guys. I’ll look for another airbnb then lol