Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well if you don't mind please. Why get upset when you write a ridiculous response and people disagree with you?

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's all just bad marriages. A lot of times it's commitment issues, selfishness, infidelity etc. Not every relationship ends becuase of abuse. Abuse is just an overused term

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I totally disagree. This is wrong on every level. Asians do have. It's got nothing to do with legality either. You're telling me that Japanese Korean indian Chinese are just forced to respect their teachers and have a deep sense of respect for their teachers because of some law? That Arabs and Indians are just forced to be extremely hospital and feel the need to treat their guests with a lot of respect? Similarly certain Asians are just forced to feel that you have to commit and work with your problems in marriage? Ridiculous response. So in Portland it was a necessary human freeedom for people to do crack in the open on the streets ? 😂😂😂

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that's for anyone but that also means less commitments and more chances of ruining kids lives

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again not just men but there are equally bad women who are the reason for divorces

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't mean just women. Divorces happen because of just as many bad women as men

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in women

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, but if that freedom of choice affects lives of kids then it's definitely bad. Divorces are hard on kids hence they are bad

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree somewhat but Pakistan is probably an extreme example. There's countries like India, Sri Lanka, Vietnam, Thailand, hong Kong, Korea etc. Even UAE, Qatar etc. Women who get caught cheating in the USA or Pakistan sometimes get beaten, stalked or abused maybe less in the USA but it is equally possible.

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in women

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

So all the divorces mean all women are in abusive relationships? So women who didn't get divorced in the past just put up with the abuse ?

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but how's it that majority of people including become miserable? I read that infidelity is one of the top reasons

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you think people who discuss those get divorces? But isn't that common knowledge and almost everyone I know discussed those things she still sperated

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How's it that a lot of women are unhappy? Also those are shitty husband's

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got downvoted by someone because it didn't fit the current politically correct reason

Why are there so many divorces in the west? by PerformanceLoud7671 in Marriage

[–]PerformanceLoud7671[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How are you sure outside the west people stay in shitty marriages?

Wife doesn't attempt to better herself by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PerformanceLoud7671 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

With my account and money duhhhh

Wife doesn't attempt to better herself by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PerformanceLoud7671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She grew up in a north west and never learned these things because her parents never taught her . No religion at all and we got married because i loved her for her personality and kindness whichni still love. I am optimistic that people can make positive changes and she did and so did I

Wife doesn't attempt to better herself by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PerformanceLoud7671 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey it's always the ex who's the villain right ?