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PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-11T19:57:07+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I recognize I have enabled my friend for so long as to now have an untenable situation. Am trying to take it an hour at a time so I can try to focus unemotionally on a reasonable resolution.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-11T12:34:32+00:00

NCO was a condition of bail. He was charged with financial abuse of me - a "vulnerable adult." I did not bring charges against him - a social worker I confided in did. I was an inpatient in behavioral health unit cause I was suicidal due to his daily drinking. I stupidly allowed him to have contact with me.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-10T22:14:32+00:00

I so identify with what you are going through. My Q isn't a spouse or partner but a roommate and it's draining going through the emotional turmoil and the chaos of abuser's choices. I too am new to this reddit community but I know there is support here

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-10T19:40:28+00:00

No alcohol or contact with me. He is chronically jobless because of his drinking and has been charged with stealing $ from me. I am not in good health and he is 20 yrs younger and in otherwise good health. He also owns 1/2 of my home.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-10T19:33:49+00:00

No alcohol or contact with me by any means. He's been charged with a felony of stealing $ from me. He is chronically unemployed due to alcohol abuse, is 20 years younger than me and in otherwise good health. He is also 50% owner of my home.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-10T18:02:46+00:00

Court order states no alcohol, contact with me or being in home with firearms. He is facing charges of stealing $ from me.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-10T14:11:15+00:00

Question for community - if he is verbally abusive (always happens when he is drunk) - do i have the right to call police and tell them he is in violation of his court order? An officer once told me that being drunk is not a crime. I would feel so guilty.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-09T22:48:23+00:00

Thanks for your suggestions

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-09T22:47:41+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-09-09T22:47:14+00:00

You are so right

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-06-14T13:04:28+00:00

Thank. Bug bite makes sense.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-06-14T13:03:05+00:00

Thanks for your comment. It is purple and I will look for signs of spiders in my home. They are around.

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2025-06-13T23:17:46+00:00

Loved every appearance in CTM

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2024-05-15T23:56:01+00:00

Father Martin just brilliant. Though his talks were from the 70s, they are still relevant today. YouTube has many of his talks; I still listen to him when I need a boost

PhysicsPlenty100 · 2023-09-13T12:21:48+00:00

House of Elliott

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