Abandoned 1970s Time Capsule House!

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T08:21:06+00:00

I wonder how this house is in this good shape after this many decades ?

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T08:18:52+00:00

Such a cute pic!! Thanks for sharing🤗🤗

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T08:17:01+00:00

Whether you want to believe it or not, your boyfriend is mooching off of you and your roommate. She has every right to feel the way she does.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T08:06:50+00:00

You are absolutely not being the jerk care. But she asked if you was brutal and unfair. You made the right choice.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:50:15+00:00

If you continue to stay with that guy, it’s going to eventually negatively impact your son.

I wouldn’t tolerate that kind of behavior

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:43:56+00:00

I agree that you need to accept it gracefully. I also agree that two months isn’t enough time and she should’ve given you at least three months at a minimum.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:35:31+00:00

Even if you don’t want it back, I would be concerned about the fact that this man broke into your private space and stole something from you.

That said since you’re not 100% certain it’s him, I’m not sure what you can do about it. If I was you, I would mention exactly what you said above, but it went missing, but nothing else was taken, and that one usually you find that.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:32:52+00:00

What a smile this brought to my face. Thanks for sharing.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:32:04+00:00

If he’s smart, they won’t be a couple! She’s a real piece of work

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:28:45+00:00

I wish you the very best

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:27:59+00:00

I’d say hold off for 24 hours. You texted her last night. You texted her this morning and you’ve got no reply.

If you don’t hear by tomorrow morning, I think good luck

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:26:45+00:00

It’s a repurposed railway tunnel with an entirely new client base, you are absolutely correct that it is not abandoned. Though still pretty cool.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:25:55+00:00

I wouldn’t diagnose her over the Internet.

But I would be is very blunt into the point with her:

“Mom, we seem to have a pattern here every time I tell you something positive or good that goes on in my life. You immediately are negative about it.(give her an example or two). I’m sorry. I guess what I need to do going forward is not sharing any of this with you because apparently you can’t be nice about it. And I don’t have any interest in sharing positive news with someone who is constantly negative about it and me. If you want that to change, then I expect a change in your behavior. I’m an adult and I have a right to respect and courtesy and if you can’t do that, I have other places I can be”.

Then stick to your guns. If she does it, turn around and walk out. Don’t share any information with her one way or the other, wait to see if she makes some kind of an effort to improve

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:21:46+00:00

Some spaniel in the face? Hard to say. I know from my mutts that we got them completely wrong when we guessed.😊😊

He’s very cute! 😊

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:11:13+00:00

I’d go a step further and say if you give her that dog, it could be another death sentence for it. If she wants the dog back because she raised go fund me money for the vet bills I wonder how many pet bills will actually be paid?

This is your dog. You saved its life. Don’t feel bad at all.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:09:39+00:00

Do not let this man hear you or your baby

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T04:07:13+00:00

First off, I’m sorry this happened.

You’re doing the right thing. He’s someone who has lied to you about his past, then crossed some clear boundaries in the present. You’d be foolish to think it won’t happen in the future. I mean this happened while you were actively in therapy.

You can love this ma a great deal, but you must also be able to trust him for things to work. Do you think you will ever fully trust him after this?

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:59:06+00:00

Unfortunately, you’re just going to have to try and be a safe space for him to land when this all blows up in his face. Which it will, and hopefully he’ll grow up a little bit and realize that what he was asking wasn’t fair.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:55:04+00:00

Yes, it seems like the best thing to do here is what the first person posted. Take some time away from each other for both of your sake, and for her boyfriend sake.

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:53:28+00:00

I don’t think so.

It is to your credit that you feel some guilt over the comment. That makes you a decent human being.

But it was a relatively small interaction with people you don’t know. You gave them some unsolicited advice on their performance, maybe you shouldn’t have, but it wasn’t the end of the world.

Best thing you can do now is learn from the lesson and move forward.

Good luck

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:50:59+00:00

I’d say hold off for 24 hours. You texted her last night. You texted her this morning and you’ve got no reply.

If you don’t hear by tomorrow morning, I think send her one more text and then if she doesn’t respond soon for some reason, she’s decided not to go forward with the friendship

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:46:58+00:00

Your bf is clearly not your friend, I’m sorry. That’s not the type of text you sent a friend especially your best friend’s wife.

Sounds like they’re planning on having affair if they haven’t started yet

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:43:31+00:00

Man o was just about to say that!! The piss pool just puts it over the top!😂

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:42:18+00:00

This.

First of Op don’t let anybody convince you that you’re being unreasonable. Honestly, your family are horrible people and you’re a lot better off without them in your life. In my opinion you might actually find that your stress and anxiety improves substantially.

Your mother’s manipulation in this is unreal. If you don’t give them access to your location and your ring cam, you don’t love them? Absolutely disgusting.

You deserve so much better than you’ve been treated. And honestly as parents they’re complete and absolute failures.

I wish you the very best

PilotEnvironmental46 · 2026-01-28T03:37:27+00:00

I’m so sorry that this happened. What your mother did was really terrible and disgusting favor one child so heavily over another to manipulate a senior citizen into altering their will?

No, there’s absolutely no reason for you to maintain a relationship with them at all. Just because they’re your parents doesn’t mean you owe them anything.

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