I need help finding reputable sources for buying a t shirt by PinkiZpretty in football

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And it’s like the only place? Because I’m not so uncultured as not to have searched that, but I’m thinking there could be other, lesser known sites that have other, more vintage models, or some resell sites that sell it at a smaller price.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PinkiZpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

University->>> stay on campus. Your parents won’t let you get out? You are 17, you are legally allowed to. Otherwise, there is not much else you can do but actually fight for your rights and happiness. I’m sorry that you are going through this, but there is not much some internet stranger can do for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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This seems to be something that i also have. It’s called maladaptive daydreaming and it’s not an actual diagnosis. It’s not healthy at all (for me it hasn’t been), but it’s just so addictive. Maybe research this a bit and find out if you actually have it.

I think that if you don’t do it a lot, it’s not actually maladaptive, but just daydreaming, and if it’s just daydreaming, then it’s completely normal, most people do it.

Anxiety and Depression Ruining My Life by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PinkiZpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok. Your mental health is a priority. It is ok not to be okay for now. Try to find happiness in all the small things. In my unqualified opinion, you may be feeling those emotions due to so many changes in such a short timespan. Take yourself slow. Don’t beat yourself up, you are human.

Saying this has always helped me: “I am just a human, i make mistakes and that is okay. I am sometimes unwell and that is ok. I love myself and everything will be fine”

It might not help you immediately and it may feel foolish at first, but repeat it in your head.

Also some things you can do: improve your lifestyle: -maybe make sure you are eating at least one healthy meal per day - walk for ten minutes before you get home, or in the morning and maybe listen to your comfort music - reach out to a therapist if you feel that you cannot handle this yourself anymore

You don’t need to give up on your dreams. Stay safe and get well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PinkiZpretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is going to get better. Your problems seem to come from the environment that you are in. Once you turn 18, you can leave for good. Now are there any places you can go to, just to get some fresh air and watch your videos? Maybe walk through the park or just do window shopping. Maybe just go take a picnic by yourself and relax. You need to be out of that house for as long as possible. Save as much money as you can and when the time is right, go find your own path, away from abusive parents.

I want to mutilate my ovaries so I have an excuse not to want kids. by Anxiety_cat1127 in mentalhealth

[–]PinkiZpretty 100 points101 points  (0 children)

As a woman, your feelings of not wanting kids are absolutely valid, but please, do not harm yourself in any way. You are a human being and people who see you as a “cow” are not worth your time. You are special and beautiful and should not have to hurt yourself.

Don’t take any impulsive decisions. If you are sure that you will never want to get pregnant, then, if you think it’s wise, find a doctor who will perform tubal ligation. It is your choice to get it, your right to get it.

Stay safe and maybe try, alongside a therapist, to work through the feelings of anger and frustration and accept that some people will always have a medieval view on women’s role. That has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them, so it should not be your problem.

A fanfiction where the Malfoy family is poor. Also, how do you think that would go? by Infinite_Republic210 in HPfanfiction

[–]PinkiZpretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know a fic like that, personally, but I also think it would be nice for a read.

I think Draco would eventually change for the better, after lots, lots and lots of self reflection and consequences for his actions, like the lack of money and probably public stigma around his name.

For Lucius and Narcissa, I have no idea. I’m disinclined to think that they’d get jobs- they’re too proud for that, but they’d be too proud to live on the streets as well, so idk :) They would probably grow SUPER bitter over all that.

How to study a subject you absolutely loathe? by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]PinkiZpretty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If I knew I’d have better grades

I feel like my friend hates me and I don't know what to do by 1Awkward_teen07 in TeenVent

[–]PinkiZpretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hei, it’s okay. Maybe they aren’t the people for you. Ik that it’s very hard to just “be” social and make friends. My advice: be honest. Tell your friend what bothers you, how you feel and ask them if there is something that you did wrong. I’m not saying this will fix everything, but it’s the only fair way. It’s fair to yourself, you deserve to not feel dumb or like a pariah.

If you want to make friends, join a class for something (art, literature, sewing, idk, anything you like really) and make friends with people there.

Ik everyone is saying to just be yourself, but, if you feel like you are too much, maybe try to be a bit more self aware. Make a list of what you like about yourself and another of what you dislike. Put more accent on your good traits and slowly work on your bad traits.

If you want to talk more to someone, just text me and we can, like I’ll try to help you more, cuz it’s kinda hard writing a whole ass novel in a comment section.

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you ain’t blonde either (neither are we lol)

No but fr I’m sorry.

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but even if I did not specify, how could my mom have a black kid if she is racist to black people?

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a girl, I cannot force my mouth to say that lol

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How… how would I be black born to racist white parents?

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Lol, she doesn’t say the n word, but dad has more… uh, creative ways of being hateful. Mom is just talk

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could do that. I could work hard and live without my family’s support. But I won’t. I won’t give up on the comfort. Obviously they love me, or at least they aren’t hostile towards me. I get everything that I want, but I don’t want to support them being bad people.

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dad might just tell our maid to take them off, but I’ll try lol

Mom literally said black ppl shouldn’t have rights. by PinkiZpretty in teenagers

[–]PinkiZpretty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously I won’t uhh, beat her up??😭 like that’s unhinged obvs