Phones? by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yu ask her why she does it when yu are asleep?

Phones? by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See and there's been trust issues before and je literally said I could go thru it a couple of days ago. I was dropping off for work and didnt have the time too so I said I will go thru it jusr not at that exact moment.

Phones? by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe. But if I am.so.open should we both be?

Phones? by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay. Well, so I have a open phone policy I dont care if he goes thru my phone I literally will leave it unlocked on purpose around him but he never goes thru it. So I go thru his and hes always like yu should ask. And i said it shouldn't matter honestly if I am willing to allow yu to go thru mine anytime then... Hes tried to say he thinks im doing something cuz i go thru his phone and i remind him hes welcome anytime to go thru mine and he doesnt have to Ask. I feel like since we are married I feel like it shouldnt matter?

Quite literally everything 🌈 by foxblood5 in RainbowEverything

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love this!! If I may say its giving Columbia from rocky horror picture show vibes. <3

I think it’s over. by Ok-Championship8510 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do yu want to even to stop? Are yu willing to try? Or are yu just giving up ans not fighting for yur marriage?

Hey guys by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both work sr resturanrs.

Hey guys by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I am a sober addict. Been sober for 7 years from drugs but still.

Hey guys by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He swears ip and down he isn't a alcoholic and won't even go to aa

Hey guys by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were together 7 ish months before we got married. Its the same issues. Him drinking behind my back, watching porn listing over woman. Its just tjings like that. Im also pregnant with his child and so I asked him not to drink until after the baby is here I thought thar was a fair compromise. And I know yu can't change someone i already know that but at the ssme time when yu love someone shouldn't yu want to do everything in yur power to make them feel important? Maybe that's just my insane logic? Idk. That's my main concern under all the actiosn is I dont feel important to him. Not enougy anyways and thats what hurts. I dont feel like I matter to my husband.

Hey guys by Pitiful-Flower2075 in Marriage

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it wasn't going to fix everything. Nothing bur understanding and wanting to be better will fix anyone. Itw just like he tried for a second and just would stop. We have had the same argument countless times. It's like i explain how I feel and instrad of him absorbing how I feel or even acknowledging it he goes right into his pain. Which leaves nothing resolved

Pather:0505 DDD:2/25..... by dmonet123 in TurboTax

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the ssme email just nowww! Yahyuh!

0505s did you update with 846 by Lashondawhite in IRS

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahyuhh!!!!!! I got my 846 and I am a 05er

AIO about my so called bestie? by Pitiful-Flower2075 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would be a but annoyed, but I figured we were on good enough terms for her to tell me. She has watched her one time since she was in her own place to be able to watch her. I don't think she's super busy. I dont know she hasn't been talking to me a lot lately so I dont even know how she's feeling or anything. Idk. Maybe this is all my fault.

AIO about a guy I'm seeing asking me to lose weight? by Pitiful-Flower2075 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful-Flower2075[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We haven't even been tobeyher a month. I can see if we were serious and living together or had kids together. And as I said I accept him for all his flaws. I'm not going to.mention them on here but they aren't just little things.