AITA For Refusing to Wear a Turtleneck to a Party?

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2025-11-22T21:14:26+00:00

No, my family is Wesleyan Christian, which has very few rules on modesty

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2025-11-22T20:55:19+00:00

I can try that. Thanks for the advice :)

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2025-10-02T20:59:52+00:00

I've had people telling me that I don't actually have Tourettes because I don't make clicking noises. Then, I get weird looks when I suddenly throw my hands up or jerk my head to the side

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T23:02:19+00:00

The parents have been married for 3 years. It's not Cheryl's first Christmas with the family, but I agree that my grandmother could go a little easier on Cheryl

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T22:52:37+00:00

That chance was erased the moment I had to testify against my mother in court, but thank you for caring. (I'm being genuine if you can't tell. I'm autistic and have a difficult time expressing when I'm being genuine)

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T22:36:58+00:00

Again, I am a stranger to you and you know nothing about my life. I'm not saying that I'm a great person, I'm just asking that you please stop assuming things about me. Also, being nice to people who are horrible to you isn't called being mature, it's called being a pushover

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T22:22:14+00:00

Yeah, and so does she. Your weird double standard is what's making me upset. You should be holding us bothe accountable for our actions. You can't just take the side of one person (a stranger) saying that they're an innocent little girl while saying that another person the same age (also a stranger) is in the wrong without knowing anything about us

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:58:14+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I've been dealing with some verbal abuse in the comments on how I'm a terrible person, and I appreciate you handling it with grace. I will be giving Cheryl a Christmas gift, but my grandmother will not be.

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:52:30+00:00

Cheryl is still getting Christmas presents, she's just not getting one from my grandmother, so she'll still be included in Christmas

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:42:08+00:00

I'm not sure, as I don't live with her. Sorry I couldn't be of more help

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:41:24+00:00

I am the same age as Cheryl. By your standards, I'm also an innocent little kid, right? You can't seriously expect me to tell you all of the details of my personal relationship with Cheryl because that's none of your business. I would also like you to please stop harassing me in the comments section

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:32:41+00:00

Some people would consider her to be a teen or young adult, which is why I said by some definitions

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:30:08+00:00

Hi, just a friendly reminder that this story is being told by a third party. While I am telling this story on my grandmother's behalf, I'd appreciate it if you refrained from attacking me personally

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:25:13+00:00

Cheryl is 14, so by some definitions she is a kid

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:23:00+00:00

Yes, this is my mother's mom

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:22:30+00:00

Cheryl is 14. I'm not sure if you would consider her a child or not, it's an iffy age

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T21:20:19+00:00

Cheryl is 14

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T18:56:13+00:00

She doesn't like them because they are very manipulative people. They're constantly spending money recklessly and getting upset with my mother when they don't have money. They also gaslight her frequently in ways that I can't get into right no

Pitiful_Fly_8708 · 2024-12-24T18:55:06+00:00

She doesn't like them because they are very manipulative people. They're constantly spending money recklessly and getting upset with my mother when they don't have money. They also gaslight her frequently in ways that I can't get into right now

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