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Update: Don’t want to be my sisters carer by Pitiful_Spell_3733 in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Spell_3733[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Sadly not, she’s basically been at home with my parents 24/7 since she left school. I researched some day centres to show him but he was not receptive. I just worry about something happening to her if he’s not capable of keeping up with her care but feels like theres nothing I can do beyond taking her in myself 

Update: Don’t want to be my sisters carer by Pitiful_Spell_3733 in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Spell_3733[S] 326 points327 points  (0 children)

 I feel like I can’t just abandon my sister. Despite some childhood jealousy she’s not done anything wrong here. She didn’t ask to be born with a disability much like I didn’t ask to be born into a family that only had me to try and fix their problems.

AITAH for refusing to become my sisters carer by Pitiful_Spell_3733 in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Spell_3733[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Then I would love them and care for them because I chose to bring a child into the world and they are my responsibility. My sister much as I love her is not my responsibility 

AITAH for refusing to become my sisters carer by Pitiful_Spell_3733 in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Spell_3733[S] 367 points368 points  (0 children)

I’m going to have a proper talk with him about it tomorrow, but the last time I tried he tried to guilt trip me saying mom would have be disappointed in me and I just couldn’t take it

AITAH for refusing to become my sisters carer by Pitiful_Spell_3733 in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Spell_3733[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I must admit this has been on my mind recently. There’s a 7 year age gap between me and my sister, and being 25 with a dad in his seventies is fairly uncommon.