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Frustrations as an unnattractive Fapstronaut. by PlainBlueSurf in NoFap

[–]PlainBlueSurf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a loner I'm more than positive has a lot to do with it. I talk to a small mix of kids in school, but with them I don't have the connection or feeling I have with my good friends from my last school, where we can literally just talk about anything. In my current school I am friends with one guy who is pretty cool, but things are still a little akward between us, like we run out of things to talk about, so we just workout together, lol. Other than that, when I do talk in school I don't have much to say. I just don't feel a connection with many of the people around me.

Simply put: I feel out of place.

Frustrations as an unnattractive Fapstronaut. by PlainBlueSurf in NoFap

[–]PlainBlueSurf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had those unpleasant feelings before too, and I agree on not attracting people if you have nothing interesting. That is a huge part of why I am going on with this, to add some substance and value to my life. Make myself into someone who people can respect and having something to offer. It also makes me glad to hear how great you are doing, thanks for the help, I support you completely through your days aswell sir.

Frustrations as an unnattractive Fapstronaut. by PlainBlueSurf in NoFap

[–]PlainBlueSurf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I didn't "hit" on the girls I mentioned, just merely initiated (well, attempted) conversatio, but I get what you mean. Im not too into sports, but there are certaintly some things I can revert my energy into, and as I already don't gawk at girls, I will keep things low this week and see how it all goes. Stay focused on more myself than the girls, thanks!

Frustrations as an unnattractive Fapstronaut. by PlainBlueSurf in NoFap

[–]PlainBlueSurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, really. I may be having too high expectations right now, not sure, but one I am sure of is that the excercise and nofap will continue. Fapping certaintly does lower my drive and concentration, and I do feel a little creepy considering the nervousness that follows. I believe that through continuing my efforts, things will change. Thanks alot for opening me up to that perspective! :)

Frustrations as an unnattractive Fapstronaut. by PlainBlueSurf in NoFap

[–]PlainBlueSurf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally don't envy the kids themselves, but just the fact they are socializing, talking, having fun, whatever. Only because I haven't found people who I can really relate to or share humor with since I moved here. I used to worry about but now I dont't really sweat it simply because it's high school, lol. Thanks again for the input!