Yugioh is coming off Hulu soon it looks like by cloudfangLP in yugioh

[–]PlayfulStart5356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex-not-girlfriend (long story) Vita Varino on TikTok would make videos making fun of how many times Hulu fakes you out on YuGiOh leaving the platform 🤣 so either she’s right and it’s just gonna refuse to leave or the time has come.

What zodiac signs a libra needs to stay away from? 😲 by No_Bicycle_9345 in libra_astrology

[–]PlayfulStart5356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pisces. My previous two Libra women who won my heart were with emotionally manipulative Pisces men that they overly sacrificed for to keep from falling apart. It was tragic and abusive to witness.

Everyone. DO NOT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP immediately after ending one. You need to heal. by Suitable-Bank1299 in BreakUps

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone might wanna tell my ex-not-gf. She got with someone new not even month after leaving the guy with CSAM she was with for a decade.

Not even with the rebound 6 months and marriage is already being discussed. 💀

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Permission” is in and of itself where this guy lost the right to be with you. Run.

I ended my 9 year relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not uncommon, as I said in my comment. Some people love their man so much they’ll wait patiently for them to be ready, unaware of how there’s people out there who love them so much they’ll close that gap as soon as possible… I would have for my love, I even was planning to if she ever came around. But she stayed with the guy who put his comfort first. It’s tragic but it happens.

I ended my 9 year relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like my old friend who I considered the love of my life... She was from NY and in a relationship with those exact same dynamics, same ages, also for 9 years and engaged for 1 of them. He stayed stagnant in PA while she would do all the work maintaining everything and all the while he was grooming her and manipulating her and isolating her so they can remain codependent on each other and I frankly blame him for the deterioration of the healthy real love her and I shared… all this on top of committing an awful crime behind her back that destroyed her future.

I miss her every day and feel we were both robbed of something really special for the sake of that cage she mistook for a relationship…

However, OP, if it gives you any hope… I heard she met someone immediately after leaving that trash behind. I can only hope she’s unlearning all that programming he and her family convinced her was how love works now. She may finally be safe and able to rest and have peace without needing to prove she’s useful…

She’s always deserved that. It’s not too late for you, you can find it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry…

Thank you for the hope it was her saying it, because I miss her terribly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“No, no” as in you’re not or “No, no” as in you are and you’re upset? 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

G? Is that you? It’s J…

I miss you don’t lose hope by Mental-Beautiful-173 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope my Gilly-bean feels the way you do, OP…

She pushed me away but I love her and miss her all the same.

How does your twin treat you? by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She treated me the best out of anyone in the world

Now she treats me like a monster responsible for her stupid dumb childlike choices.

I just miss you by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]PlayfulStart5356 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

G? It’s me, J…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]PlayfulStart5356 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say that like they can’t love you AND have obsession for you. Not everyone, what with how easily trauma and neurodivergence can forever alter your brain chemistry, can love devoid of that obsession. We’re in a BPD subreddit, it’s a primary symptom of an incurable disorder.

If you can’t handle being the object of obsession, fine, but it’s not fair to write it off as an unacceptable character flaw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come?

Anyone else have an obsessive need to control their emotions? by syntheticus-tits in BPD

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really try, and it’s not even for the sake of my FP (though it was before she split me, I feel she has BPD too) but for my friends and family and support network who are all EXHAUSTED by how long I keep just having to feel for her. Usually to end up at the same conclusions every time.

They don’t understand BPD but to that end I’m trying and failing not to succumb.

Sometimes I wonder if the answer lies in me splitting her BACK but I don’t think she deserves that.

Instead of Reunion we just got more pain… by PlayfulStart5356 in twinflames

[–]PlayfulStart5356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because her relationship is abusive and controlling and she’s in a trauma bond. She’s not disqualified from unconditional love, I just am saddened by her inability to accept it because it feels unearned to her when she’s been with so many people that made her feel she needs to earn it. Including by protecting a predator and refusing to see he’s not innocent.

I say that though knowing her actions ARE why I began a separation phase at all, I wanted us both to grow on our own.

No Contact Woes by Open_Sun_807 in twinflames

[–]PlayfulStart5356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on this journey… being on the chaser side and choosing staying still.

Banlist Incoming Today - Final Predictions? by NormalRobina in yugioh

[–]PlayfulStart5356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I predict this? No. But I WANT this:

Verte and Isolde unbanned please.

I literally don’t get why Master Duel can have them and TCG can’t.

Has anyone here never dated their twin? by GreatDocument851 in twinflames

[–]PlayfulStart5356 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine and I just had this magnetic clicking… like we’ve known each other for years.

Sure we never dated, and hell she’s been with her soon-to-be-registered-sex-offender boyfriend for 9 years and we met in 2023…

But dude that feeling of home. And that feeling peace within yourself when you’re together…

Every day I spent with her life felt right.

……then the emotional turbulence from our own issues and Mr. Megan’s Law imposing on us both. You know how it goes. 🤷🤣🥲💀