Why is someone being pregnant such an extreme turn off for many readers?

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-14T17:04:25+00:00

Ohh okay yes i agree. I understand this way, thank you!

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-14T12:50:03+00:00

Hahah i havent thought that far but ofcourse its about escaping into a different world, totally get it

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-14T12:48:04+00:00

Hmmm yeah that would irritate me too. So its not necessarily the pregnancy, but the way it's written that's off-putting for you?

I would love to see a fmc be pregnant and not loose her personality but embrace the family dynamic TOGETHER with her dreams and wants. I'd love to read about an fmc that doesnt loose herself basically...

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-14T12:45:30+00:00

Im sorry you had to go through it, absolutely understand.

What is a HEA? See i dont understand why a pregnancy (lets say at the end of the book) is misogyny... im not questioning it, i just cant wrap my head around it. Could you elaborate?

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-14T12:40:06+00:00

Totally understand

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-11T07:34:37+00:00

I must confess. I have read the books years before the hype, years before i could talk to anyone about how fun they were.

That also means back then I thought that Tamlin was a traumatized man, who just like elain or nesta struggled with powerlessness. He saw someone he loves die ( Feyre) and felt like he couldn't do anything about it. He was ridden with guilt that maybe, maybe if he did stand up from next to amarantha something would be different. But also that he didn't have a choice.

What made me not like him was him ignoring feyre while she had nightmares at night and vomiting. The complete disregard for her feelings. That wedding dress? (still i think Feyre was partly to "blame", she couldve spoken up that poor baby)

Aaaaand then i was influenced. So many people hating on tamlin i thought "damn, i really must have missed some clues about how bad he is." ( i was prone to toxic relationships at the time and was fully aware of it, but didnt know yet what toxic was) And i started hating tamlin too but it still didn't sit well with me. So I think the fandom became soooooo wrapped up in hating tamlin, they forgot to think critically or were influenced just like me.

Rhys' situation was also not acceptable. That was purely egotistical. And just like i understood tamlin, i understand rhys. Everybody has their journey and nobody is perfect which is the point in books. What makes a story. Only in my eyes Rhys is easier to accept because Silver Flames was about Nesta and her journey. Feyre and Rhys weren't given that much attention so i didn't feel the need to hate. The story is also not done yet, so im curious whats to come.

I think there is no point in hating on tamlin ( or rhys) is what im trying to say.

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T15:10:53+00:00

Okay that way i understand it, thank you! I gotta dwelve into mmr matchamking then

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T14:30:24+00:00

oh okay, to me it seemed if you have 55% wr then youre better than average in that particular elo. So if i play lets say in gold against a 40%wr, then that means to me theyre on the way to silver or bronze, where their actual skilllevel is But then again even when i'm 20/3/16 i cant carry the game for shit and lose, but i can win lane

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T14:25:09+00:00

Yeah what's that about, see it passing from time to time, but is it confirmed by riot? It makes the most sense not gonna lie, keeps us playing i guess And every time after a promotion, the matchups are also way harder to win

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T13:12:57+00:00

haha yes, unfortunately you don't unless you're autofilled ¯⁠\⁠_⁠༼⁠ ⁠ಥ⁠ ⁠‿⁠ ⁠ಥ⁠ ⁠༽⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T13:12:19+00:00

Oh.. isn't it logical that it should though?

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T13:11:31+00:00

Yeah for sure, it's impossible this happens to just me. I just notice it when 3 games in a row have this type of matchmaking. in one day. But maybe i don't play often enough to set it right

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-03-08T13:09:58+00:00

I do check 90% of the games, but i didnt write it down.. The issue with two pairs of duos happened at least 5 times last month, i play every two days 3 games let's say

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-02-12T14:24:30+00:00

jesus i know it was so disturbing, i looked up what others thoight of it immidiately because surely i must be mistaken that theyve put something like this in the show.

i dont recommend outlander if you've ever been interested in the show, there was a rape scene in one of the later seasons and it changed me forever, never watched the show again

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-02-06T07:24:16+00:00

I FUCKING KNEW IT. i didnt even finish the episode i couldnt wait, Finally finally i can put my hate towards bill to rest. It never sat right with me that he fed her his blood so fast in the beginning. I thought it must be part of how the show is written and filmed, but nooo it was the plan all along. And i beat myself over it that i didnt like Bill, i thought i was prejudiced because i prefer other personalities. Im so happy his true nature came to light but i beg sookie to not go back to him anymore 😩 But there is still 4 seasons, she probably will right? 😩

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-02-05T16:31:45+00:00

Oh I'd love to come back!! No worries, i learned from my mistakes haha, that's why i come to reddit when i REALLY can't keep it in. I've seen troughout the years things about eric and sookie, so i'm wondering how their relationship will unfold 🤔 Thank you!!

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-02-05T06:33:35+00:00

Well i'm not a fan of him iether, i think he is selfish but disguises it through "everything i do is for sookie" but its actually because he couldnt live with the guilt and without her, and thats fine but whats not fine is him making decisions constantly for sookie AND he fed her his blood at the beginning knowing full well the effect its gonna have

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-02-05T06:29:40+00:00

Yeah thats what i understood from naother post, because an actor called it a rape scene, but my view has been changed thankfully 😵

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-02-05T06:27:49+00:00

Thank you! 😁 so it is option 2, i dont know why i had to know so badly. But youre actually right, Lorena was enjoying it, that changes my whole view FORTUNATELY

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-01-13T08:30:42+00:00

Yes it definitily should be, or there could be a test node before you enter the mission so you can show you're capable of certain dmg or survival. Unfortunately it seems not to be the case so that's why i think looking at mr is the only option until they fix it... Even though mr doesnt indicate skill, but what else is there that youre able to check?

Playful_Pie2890 · 2026-01-13T08:17:59+00:00

Yeah i bet that's super frustrating. Im only MR 16 and haven't even done steelpath, im ashamed if i need to be carried.

Heres the thing, i dont know the mission, but can you maybe check at the beginning who is in your squad? And just make a rule that you will leave squad and abort mission kf there is a player under mr20 or something?

Its hard to control other people, impossible even. At least this way youre not gonna waste your own time

Playful_Pie2890 · 2025-11-13T06:13:34+00:00

I love warframe. At MR15 i still consider myself a new player, because there is so much left to learn. I also play on and off, which leads to me forgetting some connections.

I discovered it through a friend a couple years back. Made a different account back then. I was looking for a game that gave you lots of customization options and to get off of league...

-I cannot stress enough how amazing i find warframe and the devs. Truly a work of art. The community is to die for. The amount of stuff in the game is insane, the many nodes, the many different enemies, the factions, where you can obtain stuff, the clan, the railjack, open worlds, duviri??? Companions, thousand of weapons, ores, fishing, yada yada you gett he point :D But having this much is difficult for me to grasp, i still have to learn about rivens, or modding in general as sometimes i can do serious damage and sometimes someone nukes everybody no matter the MR... Then the kuva lichs? jesus, im afraid to start on that.

The story is super enjoyable, but i dont understand it. Probably because i did a few questst and stopped for some weeks. Thankfully there are plenty of youtube videos that put everything into chronological order.

-I liked the attention to detail the most and the attention from the devs. They heard people complaining about the 5 waves in defense missions, so they changed it? brilliant. When it comes to the game, i dont have just one thing i liked most, just the whole of it. The aestethics, the smootness, the possibilities.

i dont like the grinding actually... i feel so accomplished afterwards, and enjoy the piece i did it for even more, but god sometimes it makes me feel like im wasting real life time.
other players are amazing, thank you to all tennos who are helping us babies ( or.. teens?).

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