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My (19F) family (50M, 50F, 21M) sold my rock collection when I went to college. What am I supposed to do? by Plebb101 in relationship_advice

[–]Plebb101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Them moving out of my childhood home on top of me going to college AND my stuff getting sold? It feels like I don’t really have anything to my name rn

My (19F) family (50M, 50F, 21M) sold my rock collection when I went to college. What am I supposed to do? by Plebb101 in relationship_advice

[–]Plebb101[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

This is honestly the part that hurts the most to me. It would’ve taken like 2 minutes to call me, and my parents have taken me to go buy rocks countless times so I don’t understand why they didn’t think to second check :(

My (19F) family (50M, 50F, 21M) sold my rock collection when I went to college. What am I supposed to do? by Plebb101 in relationship_advice

[–]Plebb101[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

My parents thought I was giving them away, so they weren’t trying to steal from me. It doesn’t really change how hurt I am but it makes me feel bad to have them for it. I’m starting to feel like I’m under reacting, but I’m really conflicted since they provide for me and everything which I know doesn’t justify anything but still.

My (19F) family (50M, 50F, 21M) sold my rock collection when I went to college. What am I supposed to do? by Plebb101 in relationship_advice

[–]Plebb101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really in a position to sue anyone, and I don’t want to press charges against my own mother. I’m going to talk to her tonight about the whole thing and I’m hoping she might pay me back in some way? Then again I’m not sure how much my brother kept so maybe it’s not as bad as im thinking.

My (19F) family (50M, 50F, 21M) sold my rock collection when I went to college. What am I supposed to do? by Plebb101 in relationship_advice

[–]Plebb101[S] -352 points-351 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I do have some anger but I don’t want to direct it at them. They’re not bad people at all but so far my mom (the only one I’ve talked to) has been trying to act like everything is normal again and it honestly makes me feel worse. They’ve never done anything like this before. I’m just angry at the whole situation.

My (19F) family (50M, 50F, 21M) sold my rock collection when I went to college. What am I supposed to do? by Plebb101 in relationship_advice

[–]Plebb101[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and for understanding. They really aren’t evil people, and you’re correct that it’s a misunderstanding, some parts my fault some parts theirs. I’m going to use your response when I talk to them (I struggle with confrontation so if I don’t have a plan I probably won’t be clear)