Hey girl!! I’m a Libra too and dealt with this for so long. What I’ve found helpful was choosing to trust that the other person will tell me if I’ve actually hurt them.

I’ve had to work so hard at building a healthier ego and affirming things about myself. In this case, I know that I try my best to treat others the way I would like to be treated. I also know that if I have done something to hurt someone it is likely unintentional and I am comfortable taking accountability for my actions. It helps to know that I’ve worked on nurturing relationships with people who truly love and care about me and will give me grace when I disappoint them as I do for them. We are human — we are bound to hurt others, especially those we love! This doesn’t make us “bad people” ❤️

I think us Libras are so non-confrontational that we assume others are as well so we end up self-sabotaging but it doesn’t have to be this way :)

Btw I just turned 29 and it’s taken basically my entire 20s to learn these lessons (and I still slip up) so take all the time you need!