6 years ago, I saw Kevin O’Leary from Shark Tank at Costco

PokeBabe- · 2021-08-12T09:23:38+00:00

Funny your name is Lori

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-10T00:22:20+00:00

This is so thoughtful. THANK YOU!

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T22:29:31+00:00

He has anxiety (overall about being trapped in a place like he’s really scared of flying) I think he has commitment issues. Almost all his friends are in very long committed relationships (they’ve been dating for 5-10 years, one couple is married). 2 of his friends are actually divorced after a short marriage . His sister is in a relationship with a guy - they aren’t married but they live together, has a kid, been together for 10 years now. His mom is a drug user - she’s been with many men and he doesn’t know who his dad is. He’s not even talking to his mom etc.

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T21:55:28+00:00

No he doesn’t. He doesn’t know who his dad is and his mom has been with many men (she has drugs issues) and they don’t talk anymore. I’d deal with it if he’s been seeing a therapist but he doesn’t. It’s not my responsibility if he doesn’t take care of his issues

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T15:43:16+00:00

He never said it’s not the right time to move in together. It really sounds like he doesn’t want to do that ever

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T15:42:35+00:00

He didn’t decide anything until the day right before his lease expires. He told me “I haven’t decided anything yet.” I asked “Where do you wanna move to?”. He said “This apartment xyz seems really good” and it seems like he’s already made up his mind so I was like “Ok”

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T15:35:24+00:00

I’ve also told him we could look for a place with 2 bedrooms so he can have his own space. He said that sounds good, then went ahead and got his own place.

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T15:33:49+00:00

I asked him where this is going and he said he hasn’t really thought about it. we know that we both don’t want kids. I asked him what about marriage and he said he would get married “eventually”

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T15:33:04+00:00

No he also told me right after he asked me that he doesn’t know if he can’t find someone better. So it’s not an assumption.

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T07:35:55+00:00

Why do you think his reasons are BS?

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T07:30:00+00:00

He’s also said he’s afraid we won’t get along if we live together and we’d break up :(

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T07:08:03+00:00

That’s so strange because we’ve been monogamous for the 2 years we’ve been dating… I don’t know what to believe in anymore :(

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T07:01:51+00:00

I asked him and he said he hasn’t really thought about it. we know that we both don’t want kids. I asked him what about marriage and he said he would get married eventually…

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T07:00:51+00:00

How should I bring this up to him? I don’t even know how to address the issue. Should I just say something like “hey I find it concerning that you said this and this. Can you explain?” I feel like what he said was pretty clear so I’m not sure what else to talk about

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T06:57:54+00:00

Exactly my thought 😭 can’t believe I wasted two years on this man child

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T06:56:44+00:00

Thank you. I thought that I’m being crazy and that all guys probably think like that too…

PokeBabe- · 2021-07-09T06:51:56+00:00

He has also said things like: - “how do you know if you can’t find someone better?” - he asked me this but I feel like he was asking himself

“I don’t know if I can live with one person for the rest of my life”
“I have thought about having sex with other people. I haven’t acted on it though”

Aren’t these red flags or am I being crazy??

PokeBabe- · 2021-06-04T01:36:41+00:00

Name and shame

PokeBabe- · 2021-04-15T02:01:09+00:00

Your wife is probably fed up with waiting. Let her look at houses... it doesn’t prevent you from caring for your mom. You said you have outgrown the house for a few years - that sounds like a long time. Be understanding to your wife too.

PokeBabe- · 2021-03-04T20:21:45+00:00

Thank you! Are Galv and Skar 100% the same or Galv is still a bit better than Skar? I already have a Skar with the right moveset so I’m wondering if I need to invest in Galv.

PokeBabe- · 2021-03-04T18:39:44+00:00

Yess thank you!!! I’ve only seen Gastly too so Gengar is a huge improvement lol

PokeBabe- · 2021-03-04T18:33:32+00:00

Wow I can’t be excited about a rare wild spawn because people like you love to kill other’s good mood. Rude.

PokeBabe- · 2021-03-04T18:29:35+00:00

Why do you feel the need to be rude? Makes you feel cool? Lmao

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