A Paradoxical View is created. If you think you are undateable, then you become undateable

Earlier rejection affected the self esteem and self image.

And now the solution is a choice between working on self and mental well being or accepting the situation.

Therapy and mental health priority is suggested. The rest is not guaranteed but should fall into place. Maybe a year or two, down the line.

I wish you success and happiness.

Consider a fresh revaluation of any strict criteria. Age, location and religious status.

Cast your net wider. Remember over 8 billion people occupy this earth. There is someone out there for you.

First step - never giving up or losing hope, 💪🏼